Now I feel bad for not inviting his parents.Would It be tacky to renew or vows so soon after being married?
2006-07-21 07:41:13 · 9 answers · asked by Addie B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Thank you all very much I truely appreciate the advice.
2006-07-22 15:20:52 · update #1
I think that would be a wonderful gesture on both your parts. There is nothing wrong with renewing vows. I'm sorry for the loss of your mother.
2006-07-21 07:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a good idea, but I wouldn't call it "renewing your vows". Since it's the first real wedding *reception* you've had, why not just treat it as a belated reception, without the ceremony? The invitations could just say, "Come help us celebrate our marriage" or somethin. No real need to hire a pastor/justice of the peace all over again - not only would that be more expensive, it does seem kind of an overkill to do it so soon. I think his parents would understand and it'll be fun to essentially have a "party" celebrating your recent marriage. I'd definitely also talk to his parents about it, explain the grief that you were going through and your reasons for not including anyone - and that you'd like to have a celebration of your marriage now that you're more emotionally able to do so! Whatever you do have fun with it and keep in mind it is your wedding so don't be too bothered by what others are going to think =)
2006-07-21 09:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure his parents understood where you guys were coming from...it would have been hard for you to see his mother there and yours not. I'm getting married in September (very small, only immediate family) and will be having the BIG ceremony on our year anniversary...everyone invited. A lot of people do that. You'll have more time to save money, plan, and if you think his mother is upset with you for eloping, ask her to help you out with those plans...
2006-07-21 08:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 13:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a great idea and it can be so much more intimate. You can at least have a little wedding party.
2006-07-21 08:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a great idea
2006-07-21 11:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, families love the opurtunity to celebrate your love for each other any time!
2006-07-21 07:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by K8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not tacky at all. a nice gesture and fun for you both too!
2006-07-21 08:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by Lacey g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds so romantic! Go for it girl!
2006-07-21 07:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by domestic?goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋