2006-07-21 07:23:44 · 5 answers · asked by lalala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I definetely think so. Often times when you are looking for the "one" you may have this exact detailed idea of who you want her to be, and therefore may miss out on great opportunities to find people who are different from what you thought you were looking for, but may be exactly what you wanted. Be open to people and willing to take risks, often times you can be pleasantly suprised!
2006-07-21 07:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by heretohelp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's up with this concept ("the one")????
Thinking like that only limits the possibilities of meeting potential freinds and lovers.
Besides, everyone that you encounter in your life teaches you more about yourself, such as what you want/require from someone and also what you are not willing to accept from someone.
You don't know yourself very well until you have had experience being involved with at least a few different people, so if you limit yourself to seeking "the one", you are chasing an impossible ideal.
There are many "ones" out there that could suit you very well, maybe 10,000 "ones"..........
If you're searching for "the one" you will never find them. You may think you have, but you will have ignored red flags, and expected someone to be other than who they really are.
Keep an open mind.
2006-07-21 08:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! They look for the right girl by her looks not by whats on the inside. Guys thing they know what they want but they really don't know untill they are about 25yrsold,sometimes even older.
2006-07-21 07:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by chisnina420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I know this 44 year old that is STILL looking for "the one". we have been out a few times and somehow we always end back up together....I personally think that he is looking way to hard for something that just isnt out there....
2006-07-21 07:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by Cas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes thats a good one its true but she might overlook him as well
2006-07-21 07:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋