If there's anyone out there that cares, PLEASE TALK TO ME!!!!!?

Question

I am totaly breaking down and crying over a REALLY stupid thing and all of my friends don't want to talk to me about whats bothering me because I got to do something they didn't. See I got to go to a concert and most of my friends didn't and I forgot to charge my cell phone before I went. So it didn't have enough battery to take pictures. I managed to get one recording that you could hear anything with. I was really close to stage, and the singer even looked, slightly pointed, waved, and smiled at me!! I am being irrational and lame but everything right now is too much. Call me a cry baby but how would you feel if you got to see your favorite band in person and you couldn't get a piture of it and you NEEDED a picture and you're upset about it and there's no one to talk to? How would you feel? So if you're nice, PLEASE TLK TO ME! IM me or E-mail me. Thanks.....

Answer 1

I know where you're coming from. i take it you're really obsessed with this band? im obsessed with a certain band too... ive been to see them twice but if i hadnt been able to take any pictures i wouldve been really upset too.

I was also at the front and one of the band members pointed at me and sang a verse to me... i couldnt believe it and i just froze, but i couldnt handle the eye contact and looked away the whole time, so he gave up and walked away, and didnt look at me again through the whole concert... i was pretty pissed off at myself for doing that.

I think the reason that noone really seems to care is that they dont understand just how much you like this band... the only thing i can say to make you feel better is that there will be another concert to look forward to, and another chance to take as many pictures as you want :)

Answer 2

Yeah I can understand u feeling bad & all that especially with u being all up front. But whats done is done & no amount of crying can change the past. The good thing is that your memory is better than any picture & u will remember those moments of that concert for a very long time. And it is likely that there will be another concert by that artiste sometime & u will go with a cell phone that is fully charged & will get some pictures then. You sound pretty young & there will be many more concerts ahead of u. Who knows u may even be the artiste on a stage someday giving a concert. So dont focus on the past. U cant change that. Focus on the good times u had at the concert of being actually singled out by the singer who pointed & waved at u. And I am curious as 2 whose concert this was.

Answer 3

Ummm hon it really is not THAT big of a deal... it doesn't matter what anyone else says... all that matters is that you were there, you enjoyed the concert and you have the memories of it... if you keep a journal write about the experience you had. You can't change the past so try and let it go. Wow how many girls get personally waved to from their favorite band members lol... not many I'm sure and whether it was captured on film or not is not the important thing.. it was captured where it counts the most in your memories. You'll see other concerts I'm sure... but please don't cry... many girls don't get to even see the inside of a real live famous band concert let alone take a pictures of them.. so if you look at it that way I hope it helps.

Answer 4

Are you serious? How old are you? Like 11?
If that is the most serious thing you have to worry about wait a few years. You'll have a mortgage, a mini-van payment and kids to drop off at ballet and softball practice. When you can't go to a concert because you are spending all of your money on formula and diapers and can't find a sitter, give me a call.

Answer 5

BOO HOO!!! I've been to tons of concerts, quite a few were my favorite band, and I have no pictures of any of them. Why do you NEED a picture? Do you have something wrong with your memory that you can't remember the concert? Jeez, wait until you have REAL problems. No wonder your friends don't want to talk to you about it. They realize that it's a stupid thing to be crying over.

Answer 6

I was expecting you to be depressed and suicidal, and on the verge breaking down over a serious problem. How old are you? 12? Believe me hun there are worse problems that you could face in life then some concert and not getting pictures of it.

Answer 7

tell them hatin azz bytches to go on some where... you are seriously sweating the fact that you didn't get a picture of the band. Sweetheart... get a grip, wipe your face and grow UP... you are to old.. not matter how old you are to be crying over something so stupid as this. Why don't you shed some of those tears for starving children or men/woman who are losing their lives to war.

don't cry over a stupid picture.... and if they didn't get to go.. who's fault is that.... surely not yours.. tell them to look it up on the Internet and print a picture out!

Answer 8

ummm...kayyyy.. it's not that serious. Go online and download the photo. You were at the concert and got to see it live. That is all that matters. Not that you took a photo of some dude that maybe pointed in your direction. Your friends will not hate you because of that. And if they dislike you because you did not take a photo, then let them go. They will be alright! NEO.

Answer 9

This sounds like me! I went to KFest 12 and there were tall people infront of me. I had a camera and had tried to take a picture of Nick Lachey. And I missed, I was sooo upset. Atleast I got pictures of Rihanna, Lucas Prata, Marcos Hernandez and Aly & Aj!!! :) -Ash

Answer 10

I would be upset, too...if I was 13....really, it's not that big of a deal...if you NEED a picture, join their fan club, or go buy a poster...life is going to present you with much bigger and more serious problems than this...you need to develop some better coping skills!