I'm a Big Guy and single. I try to keep myself up.( clean cut, nice looking clothes, positive attitude, a little shy) I know women but they are either married, taken, or lesbian. i try to meet new ppl and instead of just telling me they don't like the big guys, they tell me bs like, im trying to get back with my ex, i dont want a relationship, etc., etc. but then they are with someone totally different. so i ask the women, are big guys still in, or are we extinct?
2006-07-21 07:20:38 · 21 answers · asked by kurtball2004 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IM HUSKY BUILT. I may be one of those type of guys that can still run and jump around. i have some type of energy. i dont breathe like im snoring.
2006-07-21 07:26:55 · update #1
no not me i like big and small guy's it's all about your attitude and how you take thing's i would love to chat some please when you get a chance hit me up at kenisha_ma@yahoo.com thanks and don't worry big guy's didn't fall off!
2006-07-21 07:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by kenisha_ma 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've never dated a big guy until recently. I've always been attracted to very fit men. Now that I am dating a big guy, I know that I had limited myself unnecessarily. I love him. He is who he is, regardless of his size.
Everybody should be honest. If they're not attracted, they're just not attracted... Men do this, too, though, and are sometimes even cruel. I've seen a man laugh in the face of a woman that was bigger than what he liked, and was not a hugely obese woman but only a little overweight. Better for people to just say "I'm not interested" and let it go at that.
2006-07-21 07:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Andi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The allegation/s come from a gal ...? Some of the answers from the guys are really worth to think. Group A : On the one hand there are gals with all intellect, sober approach with no "tight shirt big butt" things, well planned life with orientation for better carriers, all professional approaches like " work with no plays" etc. Group B : With all ads on the body, dress and body languages , casual and talking, nothing planned and never appearing calculative, no concern for careers. Do not use fences for new friends. In all the above cases, the guys may fall for the wrong women to be proved later. But, as a first choice the Group B may appear to be easy to handle for them. Opinion differs.
2016-03-27 02:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it could be the kind of women you are attract to. because I know if you are a real women size won't matter because love comes in all shapes and sizes.I hate when people Date other people for the way they look. OK, sometimes looks do matter, but that to me is one percent of a relationship. All the rest is personality, they way you keep yourself up, and to know that you have goals and a plan in life. So sometime you have to just sit back and let that woman come to you and I'Il guarantee you she will be just ask beautiful as the others.
2006-07-21 07:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by QUEEN R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different tastes, and those tastes don't usually change like clothing fashions do... perhaps you just haven't been looking in the right crowd? ie: fitness-related events aren't a good bet...
And I don't think the womens' intent is to 'BS' you. We're taught to be polite, and we often don't wish to risk hurting someone's feelings, and being seen as shallow, if *they* are insecure about their weight, so we grab the closest excuse. We HATE it when guys defer based on our bodies, especially when they get rude about it. It's meant to be a kindness...
2006-07-21 07:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by m3dit8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love big guys. always has always will. My boyfriend who i just recently been with, (we have been dating for 2 1/2 months), he is 5'10 and 290 lbs. I am 6'0 ft and 180 lbs. before him, the guy i was with was 6'4 and 370 lbs. I think as long as you have a good heart, are caring, good around others, caring, affectiate, and kind, the right person is out there for you. just dont be in a hurry to find someone. when u least expect it, it will happen
2006-07-21 07:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went to plentyoffish.com and found someone I didn't expect that is on the large size. To me he is like a big teddy bear. I feel comfortable and cared about with him. He has come along ways he admits. He went to promise keepers to learn how to treat a lady. We have only been together for 3 wks. So there are women out there.
2006-07-21 07:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Big" as in obese? Or like Tom Selleck Big? I'd go out with Tom, but not Louie Anderson. Sorry. But health-considerations need to be taken into account as well. Also, I'm tiny and don't wanna get squished.
2006-07-21 07:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've dated big guys. i don't mind a lil extra weight.. my man has a slight belly.. but i know for me it is important that a guy takes care of his health.. at least attempts to eat right and exercise.. etc. you know what i mean? if a bigger guy wasn't doing that stuff, that would ruin it for me, but it wouldn't be because he is big. everyone has their own taste though, and to be quite frank.. most people are pretty shallow these days about looks...
2006-07-21 07:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by MnKLmT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good guys are always "in" Maybe you just haven't met the right one ,don't give up on a good woman ,shes out there waiting just for you big guy. ....
2006-07-21 07:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by Yakuza 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like that with all guys...you can't just go up to a woman and ask her out. Be her friend first and then she'll get to see you for who you truly are. :-)
2006-07-21 07:25:26 · answer #11 · answered by SpringsGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋