What to do to make it better and get my ex girlfriend back?

Question

Yestarday morning me and my ex girlfriend had a fight I told her that I wanted the relationship to be over but I really didn't mean it I want to be with her. I got upset because I thought she was lieing to me so at the moment I wanted to leave. But now I regret telling her that I told her that I didn't mean it I was sorry and that it would never happen again. But I have told her before and it always happen again. I really care a lot about her I Love her with all my heart. But we had a bi fight and I don't know if she can forgive me. Any advise on anything I can say or do to make her forgive me, let her know that I really care about her, or how to get her back. I reallly want to be with her. If you could help I'd appricaite it! Thank You.

Answer 1

This is a tough one my friend. I too have put myself in a situation like this with my current fiancé I even had recently a friend move in with me because of her boyfriend was like you and me.

First I think we do these things because deep down in side we know that these women we do these things to ARE POLISHED DIAMONDS that can't have a value, they are so precise to us.

I believe we act like this because we are insecure about our relationship. For me I thought, if I told her how I really felt "that she is so precious to me all the time" then she would wonder why she was with me if she so precious she can be with anyone else.

So I did just the opposite, told her the things she doing was not good enough really only told her she was pretty when I wanted sex or when she ask "am I pretty"

So we need to explain to them how we really feel about them let them know they are goddess sent to use and that we love their company and they will return say things that will help in our insecurities and doubts. (IF THEY ARE THE TRUE ONES WE ARE MEANT TO SPEND OUR LIFE’S WITH)

Your immediate problem though is you need to get her back not knowing you 2 I would have to say. You really need to tell her all your feelings and truly explain your love to her. But the trick is not to do it like a pansy women our complicated they want use t show our feeling but they also only get with guys that are ***** so you need to be a man telling her your true feeling and if it is meant to be she will forgive you.

And then you got to get a hold of me and let me know how it's going.

I hope this makes sense I kind of felt like a relationship shrink writing this. Good luck

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I'm curious as to your ages. fighting (or conflict) with ones other half is indication of many problems in the relationship. One is your anger and bullying by breaking up or threatening to break up. A good and lasting relationship is built on virtues that don't just come to you, they are learned. And it takes time to learn them if one is willing to learn them. Another is your word or promise keeping. Say what you mean and mean what you say, otherwise shut up. What's in your heart will always come out of your mouth. If there is deceit in your heart then you will lie and make false promises. If you are young you should concentrate on yourself and building a career and a life for yourself. If you can't be true to yourself and treat yourself good, how will you be able to be good your better half? Stay friends and give yourselves time to explore yourselves as to who you are and what you want in life. Then focus how to get those things you need in order to support a mate. Key word: Have a foundation on which to build-rock or sand.

Answer 4

Well, this is a hard one to answer cuz if I was a girl and I had a b/f that would say he wouldn't do it again and then would do it......I think i would have a hard time trust in what He says and without trust I don't believe a relationship had much to go on......But if you both really care for one another I would say you need to prove to her you mean business this time......Cuz words said in anger can leave really big scares for life

Answer 5

Allow some time for both of you to cool off and have a chance to really think about what happened. Don't just say sorry and ask to get back together talk about what is going on. Open communication is important.

Answer 6

You've broken up with her before in that same way?

It sounds like you have some issues..not serious ones.

I would call her and explain to her that you are just stupid..get her some flowers..be sweet. Stop jumping the gun because you didn't get the answer you want..if I were her...no matter how much you begged and it hurt..I wouldn't take you back..the yo yo relationships are hard on your mental stability...

Answer 7

Well first off it seems that you might have ruined things, BUT just tell her how you feel and give her time to think about it, if she comes back to you then it was meant to be, if not then maybe you will find someone else and learn from the mistake you have made with your ex girlfriend.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

well atleast you learn something here that next time be careful what you say or not....remember relationship is just a glass if you break it. its hard to put the pieces back.

talk to her explain it to her. how you explain everything here. i'm assuming she loves you so maybe she will give you another change. good luck

Answer 10

You better start pampering her with all the things she likes. Then apologise and tell her to give you another chance. Tell her it will never happen again.