My ex BF and I broke up about 2months ago (together for 9 months) ever since we would talk everyday just like usual even though we werent together up until now that he has a new GF anyway hes been with the girl for like 2wks the first week they were together we would talk here and there and text message each other and he would tell me to not talk to him anymore but I would continue to, but now I got tired of it and stopped calling, texting, email, etc and now he calls me telling me dumb stuff and talking about his girl to me like I care?.. and he calls me by her name on purpose and acts like its an accident. Im 19 yrs old going on 20 I dont need that BS u feel me? hes 17 going on 18 what he does by saying that to me is so lame. I just want to know what really is going through his head why does he tell he doesnt want me and then give me hints that hes does?.... Sorry for the long details..
2006-07-21 06:30:49 · 13 answers · asked by ABC 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll keep this one short and sweet. He's an idiot loser that is trying to make you jealous, badly. He enjoyed the attention you were showing him and was having fantasies of having both of you. If there is indeed a second one.
First of all, if a guy says, 'don't call' Don't. It makes you look like a stalker psycho girl.
Second of all. If a guy is OBVIOUSLY messing with your head. Leave, Immediately. Its not funny, cool, or even marginally mature.
Lastly. - Date someone older so you can get a feel for how a real man handles a relationship, rather than a teenager.
2006-07-21 06:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not be able to understand the true answer to this... but the fact is that if you have sufficient self-esteem, you know that you're worth someone who thinks you're awesome, who wants to be with you. You won't keep trying to figure out guys who have other girlfriends - you'll be looking forward to the next great thing around the corner. If you're not thinking that optimisically about your chances, you need to get out of the house and engage in activities that make you feel good about yourself and help you meet new people. Example: I got a resturant job that I was good at. The approval I got from co-workers and customers boosted my self-esteem... and a lot of those co-workers and customers were pretty hot! Ex-boyfriend-who???
2006-07-21 06:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by Margaret Thatcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is said that girls mature faster than guys do... n since ur ex is only 17 i think he's just immature...he's just trying to make u jealous n i think u shud get rid of him as soon as possible...it's not good for u to have such a guy around.....it's always good to be friends with someone after breakup but that require great understanding and maturity which ur ex clearly lacks.....he's trying to make u repent about the breakup which u shudn't n make sure he's aware of it....just give him the taste of his own medicine
2006-07-21 06:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by dawink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this dude is really immature and needs to work out some of his own personal issues. The hardest/best thing you could do is move on completely and start dating other guys. Guys love a challange so as soon as you move on he will more than likely start calling you again telling you that he wants to be with you, but as soon as you get involved again the same thing will happen. It just works that way. So don't bother with him again.
2006-07-21 06:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by Zachary T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definition of smooth i wouldnt desire a guy that cries over each little thing yet i'm a hopless romantic and may favor someone who meets those favor so yeah i imagine identity like a smooth guy
2016-10-15 01:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by keys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is tryin 2 c if u still hav feelings 4 him....so then he talks bout his gf when he round u. to me it sounds like u do still hav feelings....i just wouldnt really tell him if he has a gf. but just talk 2 him & ask him y he callin u her name & is always talkin bout her when u on the phone......just what eva u do do NOT stop talkin & bein friends w/ him (evn if nothin happens between ya'll & he stay w/ this girl) just me it dose not feel good loosen a friend that u care a lot about........just talk 2 him & c how he is feelin maybe HE will give u your answer
good luck
2006-07-21 06:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess he's just trying to hit on you to trouble you.there are some guys who like to hurt there ex's and make them feel jealous,specially when they know that you still are in love with them and trust me hes one of those....
you should just keep away and not let all this affect you.dont give him another chance to ask you to stop talking to him,etc.instead you be the one and lemme tell you there are better guys out there,who will care and love you with all the respect that you deserve
2006-07-21 06:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him not to contact you anymore. He told you not to contat him so you can do the same. and Try to find a new dude who isn't gonna play the BS games your ex played. You will be alot happier in the end.
2006-07-22 03:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he liked the attention even tho he was telling you he didn't want it, and when it was gone he missed it.....he was probably making his new girl friend insecure and you as well and enjoying it.......when you stopped calling it took all his power away and he is tying to entice you back........ mine is just a paranoid point of view from allot of bad experiences ma by......make what you will of my diagnosis.....good luck...
2006-07-21 06:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jamni@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants it all. He had the new GF 2 weeks after you broke up. Sounds fishy. I think it is time you moved on.
2006-07-21 06:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by Odie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋