is there any way to completely and totally get over a guy you know is not the one for you and will never return your feelings anyway? i know this, i just cant get him out of my head...
2006-07-21 06:20:39 · 17 answers · asked by Cutie_Kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave it to time! thats the best cure..been there done that ;)
2006-07-21 06:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, time to ask a logical question.... You say he don't return your feelings, evidently he walked and ain't comming back. Why waste time on this guy when there are five more out there of equal or better quality? Seems to me you can do better than spinnin' your wheels in the mud over someone that really don't give a bean about you. Go get a better guy.
2006-07-21 13:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks i went through that about a year ago. It took about 6 months for me to get over it. I can't feeling like I made the wrong choice. But yet I knew it was the right one for me. So just know that he isn't what you want and let time do it's thing. Enjoy the single life and date for what you do want!
2006-07-21 13:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It helps to have a little something on the side with someone, not a bf gf relationship but just a friend who will be there to take you out and get your mind off of your ex. You don't have to sleep with him or anything (although that does help) so don't do anything your going to regret. Good luck Sweetie, remember, there are tons of guys out there, let them find you!
2006-07-21 13:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by cali_gal716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, try and get out with your mate (girls) and get to know other guys at the pub or something. hopefully it will help to get your mind off him but if not, just think about it, he might be really hot or something (!!!) but if you know hes not the one, why are you wasting your time on him when theres plenty of other guys out there for you! theres no point in trying to have a relationship with him - it would only be one-way. good luck!! xx
2006-07-21 13:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by beckyzbonkers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spoil yourself rotten at spas, stay a weekend at a nice hotel and get room service. Go shopping. By the time you've completed all of that you'll be looking for someone who can appreciate you, not him.
2006-07-21 13:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its hard to forget about the person that we love. also we get used to talk to them and be with almost everyday. so its hard right? so you cannot just teach your heart to forget about him. but dont worry TRUST ME you gonna get tired of this Craft and maybe that day you forget about him totally...like they say it will take time.
look at me i been broken up with my exbf for about 3months now....i still miss him. but life must go on. i cant force someone just to be with me right?
i guess the only thing we totally forget about them if we open our heart and ready to gamble again.
so just leave it that way dear...if you miss him that oky nothing wrong with that....so now just chillax just think that not everything we want in life we could get it. maybe we didnt get them coz there's a reason and its just not meant to be.
well atleast we learn something with it right and from this experience we make are self more stronger and stronger.
good luck
2006-07-21 13:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I want to say I'm so sorry things didn't work out for the two of you. Secondly, give yourself time. Time is the best cure for someone in your situation. I should know, I've been there myself.
2006-07-21 13:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DELETE! lol i just delete his number, email...all that stuff. Fake it till you make it. You have to cuz when he does realize that you moved on, he'll be back and you need to be stronger at that time cuz he's gonna try and smooth talk his way back in, only to do the same crap as before.
2006-07-21 13:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by myopinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with some of you're friends.and have a good time and that way you will forget all about him. good luck
2006-07-21 13:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry for 12 minutes and then go on to bigger and better things. life is too short to be miserable. you can make your life happy or you can have a pity party for yourself . Wake up!
2006-07-21 13:24:08 · answer #11 · answered by omahapamela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋