Ok he tried to get me to when he gave me the choice of movin back to indiana with him or going to jensen beach alone i said him...and then hes all try again so i was like i wanna go to jensen beach and thats what im doin i have plans and he can be in them or not... well now he wants to go and im just over it im too young he wants to settle down and i feel bad for breaking up with him cuz i braught him all the way down to fl from indiana..?? what do i do... how do i make him break up with me.. hes a cancer if that means anything to anyone.. and im an aries!!
2006-07-21 06:15:45 · 24 answers · asked by kmspoiledbrat78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep it simple and blunt. Tell him in the same way you posted it here so there are no questions or doubts. You did not force him to move to Florida, he made a choice. Reality is that we all sometimes make bad choices. He can certainly return home or stay there in FL. Even if you feel bad, this is the better option. It may hurt him more as well but at least you will both have the ability to move on with your lives.
From personal experience, there is nothing worse than having someone who doesn't want to be with you any longer but out of fear, embarassment or whatever will not come out and say that.
2006-07-21 06:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lubers25 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cancers are sensative, so be careful with the words you choose. Just straight out, tell him the truth about how you feel. I know its hard babe, but sometimes, in life, you gotta make really hard decisions. Besides, its not like you are going to another planet.....I truly believe that things happen for a reason. Maybe you 2 need this break and somewhere, sometime, in the future, you will get back together and end up being together for the rest of your lives. But for now, you must take this step and tell him that you need some space and some time to think things out. He knows how young you are, so he must understand that do you need this time. I sincerely hope that this works for the best for you and for him. Have faith and trust in your decision.
2006-07-21 06:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by daddydoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Break up with him. It will be easier on you this way. You are stringing him along. Let him move on with his life already instead of making him stay around while you try to get him to break up with you. So what if you feel a little guilty afterward. Don't be a coward.
2006-07-21 06:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your an insensitive *****, if he moved from Indiana to Florida, you better get used to his company some how because you just ruined the guys life, I don't think it matters how you break up with him at this point... either way, you really pulled a stupid move, you have to fix it yourself, not ask people on yahoo answers or anyone for that matter to fix it for you. Here's some advice... grow up.
2006-07-21 06:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much too young? If you're young enough you can use that as a reason why he should break up with you. Or you could just tell the whole truth
2006-07-21 06:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him to break up with you, be a b****, break your promises, don't accept his phone calls.
If you want to be a real woman with morals, tell him gently that you're not ready to settle down, you're sorry he moved for you and you can't do the same. It's better for you and your relationship if you are HONEST about what you need.
2006-07-21 06:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by vicvic* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like that T-Mobile commercial with the cheerleader on the phone in the middle of the floor. (lol)
If it is not working, let it go. Stop holding on to something that is not there. He can either move back or find a job there. Who cares what your sign is, here's mine... STOP! neo_soul-06
2006-07-21 06:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by NEOSOUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait around for him to break up with you, it's your job now. It sounds like he is willing to follow you wherever you go...you must be frank and honest with him...i know its hard but the longer this drags out the more painful it will be for both of you.
2006-07-21 06:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by Joey W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have one of your friends sleep with him for you and then that can be your reason for leaving him. I'm an aries too. Tell him you can't leave your family if they are near you...you will miss them too much. And tell him you are too young to be making such rational decisions
Good luck girl
2006-07-21 06:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by jso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl please....if ur over him than dump him. Why you gotta wait for him to break up with you? If you no longer want him in ur life than let him know and move on. U a grown a** women ain't you?
2006-07-21 06:19:41 · answer #10 · answered by Traviesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋