How many of you (if honest) would admit to being obsessed with how people preiceve your outer appearance? Meaning your clothes the car you drive, your home etc. Now i know a lot of people will say "No, I want people to be impressed with my mind and personality and hopefully find me attractive as well." and you might be telling the truth but i've noticed that more and more people are working towards impressing people with things instead of with who they are as a person.
2006-07-21 06:08:53 · 13 answers · asked by Sxyblkdiva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guilty of all charges
2006-07-21 06:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by Energius B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would always like to appear neat and tidy but I cant say I am obsessed with my appearance. I dont care what others think of my appearance other than not saying Im dirty or smelly..lol but other than that...all I care about is my hubby's opinion. Afterall, his is the only opinion that really counts and he tells me daily how beautiful I am (even though Im overweight) and how much he loves me and is thankful for me.
But I so agree with you..more and more people are into trying to look good on the outside and content to be a mess on the inside. Shame :(
2006-07-21 06:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by AccountableLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must admit I am obsessed with impressing EVERYONE. For those of you that say you dont do anything to impress anyone you would be lying!!!! I grew up in a house with a modest income and I always wore out of date clothing and my mom never seemed to care but I know she did. So I am very aware of my conscious efforts to dress to impress. What is so wrong about that? When you are intelligent you show the world, when you are beautiful you show the world, when you have it you show everyone.
2006-07-21 06:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i guess i like to look nice and have nice things, but i wouldn't say im obsessed with it all. I'm not the kind of person who would been meen to the person who has nothing and isn't very attractive. I don't like that at all.. as for looks, i think everyone has some feature which is beautiful. Everyones made by God so thats a miracle.
2006-07-21 06:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe some people are obsessed with that, but I happen not to be one of them. I could care less what people think about how I look or what I have. Materials things are only temporary, most of which you can live without. I do care how people think of me on the inside. I try my best to help and care for people, and not how they look or what they have.
2006-07-21 06:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the above poster, I have a fast red sports car but it is not for anyone else..it is strictly for me...my friends will say I am shallow but for me my self confidence comes when I feel confident in things around me...If I have a nice car I feel good...if I drive a junker I feel crappy so yeah it sounds bad but that is who I am...but I don't put down other people's rides because things around you are for you and you only...I am 26 so I am not going around trying to impress people...but I do feel good when I am wearing my good shirt..and my best pair of jeans...or my best shoes..its all for me..I feeel good that is all i care about.
2006-07-21 06:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by Confused Friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am obsessed (to a fault) with people knowing the real me. I drive a beat up Jeep and my favorite clothes are my cutoffs' and a T. I might down play myself more subconsiously so that people see that I am not obsessed with the "way people see me".
2006-07-21 06:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by TR 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 01:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by keys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be lying if I said beauty and material thing werent important but i'ts unfortuniate we live in a materiall world.
I used to date this very pretty girlwho also had a heart of gold, I guess i was just lucky
2006-07-21 06:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by .? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am too old to try and impress people that way....IF they don't like me for who I am.....then they don't get what else I have.....and what I have is things that can't be seen.......I look poor, but I am 52, retired, and not planning on doing another honest days work ever......I work at home...and have an Internet business......and it is doing just fine
2006-07-21 06:14:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO the grass isnt greener on the other side
2006-07-21 06:11:21 · answer #11 · answered by dumplingmuffin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋