Most of the women I have delt with hate anal sex, while a good portions of them like it more than regular. Why are women so terrified of anal sex. If you do enjoy it, what makes you enjoy it so much and how did you get over the fear factor.
2006-07-21 06:00:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It can be scary at first because it hurts SO much. I first tried it because the person I was with really wanted to, and it is, after all, my single goal in life to please men. After the initial pain subsided, I began to enjoy it... the same way as with regular sex.
2006-07-21 06:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I find that every now and again I need it in the ***. Why is this? I don't really know, but every couple of weeks, I'm good for it. Is it something I would want all the time? No, I don't think so. It is to be indulged in to keep it special...not over-used. I think men feel this way, too. If it was all the time, the novelty would wear off.
Now, back to why I personally like it. It gives me an intense feeling of belonging to someone. I love it so much when I feel like I am being dominated, and that is the ultimate form of domination for a woman to experience. I enjoy it when it is hot, sweaty, and in the heat of the moment, maybe with some good-feeling, sensual, blues-y music in the backround. When I do it this way, my man must be close to me, pin my hands down, and whisper in my ear and on my neck.
If you go about it the right way, most woman would be receptive to it. It is a little uncomfortable at first, but it is hardly noticable if lube is used and a little finger first, and if you wait till the juices are all fired up.
Happy hunting!
2006-07-21 13:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by AlloAllo 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because it hurts unless you are a 'special' turned on.
For me - that 'special' turned on occurs 2-4 times a year. I like it so I wish I got that 'special' more often. I don't know if its hormonal or some visual stimuli or what.
All I know that my husband appreciates knowing that he's going to get some strange about every 3 months or so.
2006-07-21 13:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by Applecore782 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. Some women don't like oral, I can't imagine why, but anal can be very painful and is very easy to get infections too. Just too dirty for me.
2006-07-21 13:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
anal sex hurts you idiot, some women like it because they like to be aggressive and rough!
2006-07-21 13:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It does not always.......I mean if you are very lube up and your partner takes his time it is quite enjoyable.
2006-07-21 13:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by bifgrl31 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow allo allo........
once i get a cold shower will you marry me!
(Im jk)
2006-07-21 13:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋