My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him. or else hell break up with me. should I break up with him first
2006-07-21 05:54:28 · 27 answers · asked by daydreamer_qt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Want do you want?
If you don't, don't
If he breaks up, you deserve and will get, better..eventually
Sex should be consensual
And you should enjoy it
And you should be safe
2006-07-21 06:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Blarneystone 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he is so demanding to have it there is a problem. First he is not giving you credit for holding back. Placing his needs first shows how the future will be. If He really cared for you it could be worked out. His getting off is not as important as your feeling comfortable with what takes place. Keep your virginity and let him stick his rod in a knothole and get out of your life.
2006-07-21 13:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. He is not worth your virginity if he is forcing you to do something you don't want to do. Don't let him take something from you that is priceless that you will regret when he decides to dump you for the next virgin.
2006-07-21 12:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by goodgirlabout2gobad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you stick with your choices, I don't think it really matters who does the breaking up. Personally it does sound like time to move on and find someone more understanding.
2006-07-21 12:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by 1hotmama5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely! you didn't need to ask us this question to get that answer. you need to understand that you are above being given ultimatums because that is what he did. be strong and firm and stick with your program...you have a right to do that and tell him that he needs to go on and find someone else if he can't get with the program. besides if you are going to stick with being a virgin, then fine but you need to recognize the desire within yourself to do this and ask how committed you are to being a virgin by getting rid of all of the people that hinder and stand in your way of doing this. they are the problem, especially your boyfriend, and...THE BEST WAY TO SOLVE A PROBLEM IS TO GET RID OF THE PROBLEM! YOU are the one who decides who gets "it" and you have every right to be as picky and choosy as you want to be.
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2006-07-21 13:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by queenreignsupreem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really does not matter who breaks up with whom. Never let anyone persuade you to do anything you want to do. Stay strong another man will come
2006-07-21 12:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by Snuggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you. He is a "friend" of any kind.
he doesn't care about you, he is selfish.
Plus, if you want to stay "intact"- but the whole idea of sexual partners far away. Get into life. Do something cool, like art, music, writing a book or something.
2006-07-21 13:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by omnimog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell Yes!!!! No man who loves you will give to an ultimatum to have sex with him or else he'll leave. Tell him leave. If he's a real jerk he'll be gone, if he was bluffing he'll try to come back (don't give in). Just do it when you're ready
2006-07-21 12:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by Snap Yo Fingas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave ur boyfriend..i totally hate the guy like that!! ur virgin is very valueable..dont let ur pride just destroy like that..if he really2 loves u he will cares n not force u do the things u dislike.. u can find a new boyfriend better n more kind than he..think thousand time..dont let he simply touch u everywhere he likes..dont ever..
2006-07-25 07:29:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I think you should break up with him cause you shouldnt be forced into having sex just to keep som person.
2006-07-21 13:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by shaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way hunny.. do not let your boyfriend pressure you into sex
sex is a big time in your life.. you will know when the time is right
get rid of your boy in the trash girl.. you can do sooooo much better! he aint worth it.. it seems that all he wants is one thing!!!!!
dump him in the trash girl!!!!!! dont ever let a guy do that to you..
stay strong!!!!!! xxx
2006-07-21 13:00:46 · answer #11 · answered by cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋