He agreed to the rules, we are just having sex. No strings no nothing, well we did a couple of times, now he is coming over alot, sending the emails etc. I had him over the last couple of times no sex, he said to me on both occations. You know it is not always about sex... He said when we met that we won't always speak when we meet don't take it personal I just do not want you caught up in the BS where I am. However, I introduced him to some friends and he says" HI there I'm the friend she doesn't like to reconize... What the hell is going on with him?
2006-07-21 05:40:50 · 18 answers · asked by TxScorpio40 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-21 05:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by u12fme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, "What the hell is going on with YOU?" There is no such thing as a no strings attached (NSA) relationship. Sex, by its very nature joins two people together emotionally and spiritually. He is only being who he is, and you are denying yourself. This is a major problem in our society today. Hook-ups and NSA relationships are destroying the very core of who we are, and demoralizing family values. Get your head together and stop prostituting yourself.
2006-07-21 12:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by Shamus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he's the kind of guy who should not get involved with a person like you. Obviously he likes you for more than just sex, which is a relatively rare thing for a man, but he doesn't have the brains to realize that he's looking for gold but you're just a piece of cheap meat.
2006-07-21 12:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why did you have him over and not make him do the chore?
Sounds like you sent him some mixed messages. You either need a time out or it's time to pick out rings and place settings.
2006-07-21 12:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang girl...u put it on him..made him change his mind...but nope tell him the new the rules of the game when he agreed to play if the shoe was on the other foot he wouldn't even know u so to him I say C ya wouldn't wanna b ya
2006-07-21 13:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by His 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NEVER just about sex. It might start out that way but it never ends up that way. We are not created to be emotionally detached. We are made to want love and to give love. It's the way we were designed.
2006-07-21 12:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why'd you have him over and not have sex? Sounds like you broke the rules.
2006-07-21 12:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by bride2b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is acting like a girl. Slap him and remind him he is just a piece of meat. If he can't deal with that, don't talk to him anymore.
2006-07-21 12:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Lovin,,,
You are agreeing to His terms.......not your own.... he is just playing you girlfriend.... no kidding... quit calling him....and see some other guys..... he will get his act together or,,, he will leave,,,
He also must be immature also.....or a youngster....
(ps, where did you say you lived)???? LOL
good luck
2006-07-21 12:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need a new stallion to ride...he is becoming unhinged with the rules that you two set down...either get him in line or get another man to take care of your needs.
2006-07-21 12:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, kind of a sappy guy. Id just move on and not talk to him anymore.
2006-07-21 12:46:27 · answer #11 · answered by Thumbs Up Fairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋