us men like being dominated from time to time
2006-07-21 05:33:47 · 12 answers · asked by the_g0vernator 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe your question should have read:
"Why don't SOME women be more aggressive in bed, you know get on top and control the guy, ask the guy out on a date.."
I for one, like being in control. I like to see him squirm when move the way that I know he likes. I like knowing that I can pin him down and do whatever I want to him. I take pleasure out of the fact that I can please him and give back to him all that he gives to me when he is in control. And If I'm horney and want sex, I know all of his spots to touch, kiss, lick, or suck to make him want me just as bad... so i don't wait around for him to make the first move, I do it myself. Besides, it's not like he would turn me down. What man would turn down a girl who wants to have sex with him?
2006-07-21 05:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
some women are afraid tht if they r in control in bed tht this will tell the men abt the rest of the relationship. no man would like to b controlled by a woman. most women wait for the men to do the first move...then they feel more comfortable
2006-07-21 05:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by triple_t5466 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a social biasness. We've reared our men to be agressive, our women to be submissive (within reason).
The truth is, not all women are passive and tentative, and not all men, like myself, are agressive.
We're reared that way, on TV, in movies, and in some of our homes. It's not going to change on a whim, either.
2006-07-21 05:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by syshonblast 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most women dont like bein agressive in the bed because if your to agressive the male will think that you are a slut!
2006-07-21 05:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't know about the women you date but I do not have a problem in that dept.
2006-07-21 05:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by candidworker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because so many men are insecure and can't handle a more aggressive woman
2006-07-21 05:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur just asking out the wrong women or u attrcat the wrong kinda women
2006-07-21 05:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause to me thats not lady like, really.
the guy should ask the girl out, and do stuff for her.
2006-07-21 05:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't met the right woman !!!!
2006-07-21 05:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by One Sly Look 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its to much work for them
2006-07-21 05:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋