i told her not to ask this guy if he liked me and she didi so i told her she shouldnt have done that and now shes telling me i always do it to her when i dont amd now shes mad at me so i told her she cant be my real friend until she accepts the fact that she was wrong to after i apoligized should she be mad and was i right for not letting her be my friend until she apoligises?
2006-07-21 05:28:27 · 11 answers · asked by greendayluvu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Right... yeah... you're right...
2006-07-21 05:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by UnR3aL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well friendship isn't something you can turn on and off like a light bulb, so you were wrong to say this to her. You are either friends or you're not friends. Friends have fallings out from time to time but you can't threaten someone to not be their friend if they don't want to do something otherwise what kind of friend are you. Having said that she should realize how much she has upset you and apoligise without being made to apologise anyway.
I don't know what her motivation was for breaking your trust, maybe she was trying to help by getting the two of you together, or maybe she was just being silly, or maybe she was being thoughtless but whatever the reason, considering that it wasn't done to deliberately hurt you I wouldn't make to big of a deal out of it.
Should she be angry with you? Why be angry with anyone. People should just say how they feel and people can either take it or leave it. Being angry with someone never gets anywhere.
Take care
I hope things work out
2006-07-21 12:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your rite.........but if you guys are gonna be mad at each other for a while about a guy...and if she is a really good friend......just for get about the guy because he will come later when you act like you dont want him no more..you have a rite to be mad but give it a couple of days i think both of you guys should apoligises to each othe it will make her feel more comfotable she will say sory for teling him and you can say sorry for getting so mad over a guy thing friends again tell her just dont do it again
2006-07-21 12:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real friendship is about forgiveness, especially over something so silly. So what if she told a guy that you liked him. If its true then she did you a favor. If the guy likes you too than maybe he won't be so shy about it in the future. Make up with each other and try harder not to do things that each other don't want the other to do.
2006-07-21 12:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah the main basis of any relationship be it friendship or otherwise is trust, if u ask her not to do something then wheres the trust?
even if she wan't mad and had appoligized alarm bells should of rang.
I think u should cut ur loses and make new trustworthy friends.
Would u seriously trust her with ur personal thoughts etc after this?
2006-07-21 12:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by laydee_t_xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you need to grow up, why would you cut ya freind off because of this!!!! you are officilally stupid, that mines a guy is more important than ya friend wow. if i was her i wouldnt even bother with you anymore
2006-07-21 12:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by MzBadHabit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be mad at her; she can just fcuk off, gosh thats why, I keep my shiit to myself, b/c it seems like these days you can hardly trust ANYONE, but you can alwasy talk to God-he keeps his mouth shut and listens:).
2006-07-21 13:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up and get over it
2006-07-21 12:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by Snuggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i am so confused, who did what to whom?
2006-07-21 12:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by JamesB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah...I don't think so....you are being hateful
2006-07-21 12:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋