welfare. My father is an old "Tom Cat" he is 69 yrs old and this is his 6th marraige. All of the marraiges broke up for 2 reasons. 1: He is a womanizer and constantly had affairs. 2: he is abusive, both mentally and physically. He likes his women young, the youngest(that I know of) was an affair he had when he was 38 and she was 16, I have a brother out of that affair he is 29 now.
The new wife is black and 32 yrs old with an 8 yr old daughter. Now I will be honest with you, before this my father was about the most racist person I can think of outside of my grandfather! I kept my sons away from him for years because I did not want them to hear the awful slurs that came from his mouth ( Blacks, asians, whatever U name it, and women).
His longtime GF died 2 yrs ago from cancer. I think she was the only woman he ever really loved, but she knew enough not to marry him.
Suddenly he calls me the other day and tells me of his new marraige. Should I tell her who he REALLY is?
2006-07-21 05:20:36 · 9 answers · asked by Fancygal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I wouldn't tell her, unless you are worried for the safety of her child, or she asks you. I think she will learn soon enough what he is like, if he hasn't reformed. But, if the marriage doesn't go well, I would be supportive.
2006-07-21 05:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was me in this situation I would keep my mouth shut when it comes to telling her she might not like what she has to hear and may just think that your trying to crash the best day of her life. Him on the other hand I would let him know my concerns and since he is 69 I would hope i has grown up by now.
2006-07-21 05:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by the nice one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
2006-07-21 05:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by rules27 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like INS's idea. JERRY! JERRY!
seriously, tell the lady about ur dad's past. couples shouldnt keep secrets from each other. n she should know who he is before she gets into trouble. u said he's abusive in both ways, n that he cheats. this lady's gotta 8 yr old kid, dont forget this lil girl's gonna be part of their lives' too.
2006-07-21 05:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by dyboy34 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go on Jerry Springer, or call Dr. Phil
2006-07-21 05:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by INS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel the need to meddle in his business? Maybe he has reformed. Many people do, especially in their twilight years.
2006-07-21 05:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
damn!
2006-07-21 05:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really care about this lady then you should tell her
2006-07-21 05:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do what your heart tells you to do but don't break your father's heart.
2006-07-21 05:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by Meganrox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋