Why would someone cheat on someone who gives them everything?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 6 months. He made a new friend in January and they began talking on the phone in March. She likes him and I think she is trying to break us up. She talks about me and then lies to him to make him think she is a very nice girl. He is feeding into everything that she is saying. But heres the twist. I have his phone bill password, email password, and his voicemail password. He doesnt know though. I know he talks to her at night, and I even asked him to stop for a little while. He tried to turn it around on me like he was the one suffuring in the relationship, but I do everything for him.

Answer 1

You can't help who you fall in love with. Love cannot be bought, it just needs to feel right.

Answer 2

It sounds like the both of you are too young to be having an exclusive relationship.
I know it's hard to hear this, but people under mid-20-'s (& sometimes older) change their minds a lot, get really excited over the newness of someone else flirting with them, etc., and a whole load of other things, that make them not able to commit properly.

Answer 3

You two have WAY too much miss -trust for the relationship to go forward. Bail out now, before you hurt any worse. It's not gonna be easy, but each day will be worse.

Get in a relationship that has real trust. Wait a year in between.

Answer 4

Doesn't seem quite fair does it? We do everything for a person and they react in a completely unanticipated way. They do things that hurt you, they sometimes try to push you away entirely - it never makes sense. If it's truly bothering you then you should have one last conversation and if you don't get the results you're looking for, leave him behind.

Answer 5

(The hunger for more). So here's a question for you ? How much of tha sh*t you gone take?
You don't need him it is him that needs you.
And if he can't respect you like a woman some one else will.(let him know your tired off this )
The same way he's doing his thing you could be doing yours so keep ya chin up ma .

Answer 6

girrrrl what are you thinking? get out of that relationship. he doesn't deserve you. he's probably seeing how much he can get away with before you realize, hell no, i'm gone. dont let him test you like that. also, sit down and talk to him about it seriously without getting angry. just ask him, do you still want to be with me? and if so, this other girl has got to go. i wish you the best! : )

Answer 7

Because if they do cheat when they can have it all, there just selfish pigs. Get out of there as fast as you can. You do not deserve to be anything less than #1 in his life.

Answer 8

you need to leave him alone!!!!!

I'M SERIOUS!!!!

My ex had cheated and try to put it on me saying I caused him to cheat and he gave me the lamest excuses that weren't worth disputing.

Give him 2 options leave the biatch alone and tell him how you feel

OR

cut the relationship

there's too many people out here that want to have a relationship and want to commit to someone.

Answer 9

he souldn't just let someone come in a get in between the two of you thats not right. as well he needs to open his eyes as to whats going on, he should defend your honor if you are not there to defend yourself, i wouldn't let anybody talk about my gf.as well you have a lot of information on him it sounds like you don't trust him, you 2 have a lot of talking to do.

Answer 10

sounds really rough and it puts you in the middle. as hard as this might sound but my advice: break up with him.
why?
well if he's going to do this behind your back then he isn't worth it, you deserve someone bettter. you want someone who RESPECTS you, he's obviously not that person. find someone else!