It just seems like I care more about our relationship than he does!! So I'm really trying to stop liking him to let he go. I can't keep letting him hurt me.
2006-07-21 05:06:52 · 19 answers · asked by missy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put him behind you.
Guys are very different than girls.
Don't let it ruin your life.
2006-07-21 05:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just can't get over something. You might not get over it, but you WILL get through it. Remind yourself how much you are worth and how much you deserve someone you cares about you just as much as you care about them. You shouldn't put so much into a relationship and receive nothing back. Relationships are about give AND take, not just giving and giving and getting nothing in return. If you feel like he is not right for you or he is not treating you how you should be treated, let him go. If you feel that way, it's probably right for you.
I totally understand that you still like him, and it might take a little while to get over that. Just try to keep yourself busy and hang out with your friends and family. The key is staying occupied. Don't sit at home being sad and dwelling on "what could have been".
It might take you a while to get over him, it wont happen over night. But I promise you will get through it.
2006-07-21 05:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. You are right - if you don't think he feels the same. You can't force it. You need to just get out and about with other people - don't allow yourself to "think" too much. Sitting alone will do that. The only thing that is going to help is TIME. Time does heal wounds. It really does. The hurt you are feeling will dissipate and someone new will come in your life who will treat you well. You will look back on this and say to yourself "now I get it - it wasn't supposed to be us together" and you'll be happy you didn't allow yourself to hurt. Go out and have fun for YOU right now.
2006-07-21 05:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls always complain about this, 'you're not paying enough attention to me' etc...I wouldn't say leave him just because you think you care more about the relationship than you do. Genders express feelings differently, there is no way of knowing that he cares less than you, maybe feels the same. The best thing to do is talk to him, express how you feel and go from there. If you want to want to be in different places than they may be casing your doubts, but don't jump the gun and dump the guy before you talk to him about it or you'll never know if things were different than you perceived them to be
2006-07-21 05:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by tj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel i was in love with someone and would go on dates with him and i notice that he doesn't pay attention to me and caught him with another girl and i told him that we were over and left crying. Get over him and do something you love the most like me i played video game and i got over him. that all you got to do and throw away anything that he gave you in the closet and that way it is easier that way.
2006-07-21 05:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Maria S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on don't let him keep hurting you. Go out and do something that'll make you feel better
2006-07-21 05:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by lasondraperry-graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wake up one day w/ one only thought.....To move on. What I did to get over someone...I joined the US Navy....and it worked.....You decide to not suffer anymore to not hurt to not feel pain for someone who doesn't deserve it. Take one big breath and take a step forward. Take up a hobby, travel, do something that isn't YOU...so it'll take up your thinking time...it'll help ;)
2006-07-21 05:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by ldkurn l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break contact... seriously after 2 days, you'll forget all about it
I just did that 2 days ago myself and I'm doing great
Dont answer calls, emails, messages, texts... just ignore it
2006-07-21 05:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by BeerFace McPoopenStein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is I don't think you can ever get over someone i still like who i dated in 2ed grade and I'm in 6th! And my boyfriend broke up with me and I'm no were near getting over him!
2006-07-21 05:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by Sabrina Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get Over someone by getting Under someone!!! LOL Move on love!
2006-07-21 05:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋