what should i do?

Question

ok im in this relationship and i feel like me and this guys could have something good. We started dating last sunday and that monday he went out of town and i thought he went with his brother. then my bestfriend was talking to her ex about hanging out and she said my mans bro was with he ex here in town. and i havent heard anything from my man yet. i know he didnt go with another girl because it was a family trip. he said i prolly wouldnt see him until today. so should i wait untill tonight to see what happens or should i be pist and just forget about him? Everyone said that when we were hanging out he treated me like an acual girlfriend and any other girls he has had he treated them like ****. im so confused i really like him but i dont want to get hurt any more. what should i do?

Answer 1

sure wait until tonight. then also ask him his side of the story too.

Answer 2

Whoa, jus slow down and chill. A week really isn't enough time to know if you have something good with someone. And if you're already starting to go through some drama, then it's probably not gonna last. I give it until the end of the summer (maybe). Also, if it is his friends that told you that he treats you better than any other girl he's been with, don't believe them. Friends always say that. No lie.

Answer 3

Try to chill out a little bit... I mean, you've been seeing this guy for less than a week. If he's still interested in his ex or in another girl, better to find out now rather than farther down the road. Take a step back and be a little less accessible. Men can smell desperation.

Answer 4

Oh hellllll no. If he told you he was going with his brother, and come to find out he didn't go with him. That is a big no no. Just because its a family trip dosent mean he couldn't have taken another or met up with a girl. You better confront his *** now and don't wait, because once you let this go by then it is going to continue. Like you said you don't want to get hurt anymore and its better to find out now then later.

Answer 5

posible answers
1) you have trust issues
2) he is a player
3) your GF is a hoe
4) it's all a big misunderstanding

Any of these answers means you need to look at yourself and ask "Is this what dating and love is supposed to be like?"

I say "NO".
Start with thiinking your worthy of a better man. Dress better, speak better, learn to spell and use punctuation properly.
Act like you have class. Not just snooty and bitchy. But act like a lady, and I'm sure you will start to attract better guys.

You're "good thing" doesn't sound so good to me if this question is coming up in the first week.

Answer 6

First,u should sit down and talk to him.In if you think he dont't treat u like **** yall are ok.but the thing is that u don't need to listen or u shouldn't care about what other people say cause they might be telling u something worng.That's why u have to find out stuff on yo on if something happening in yo realtionship.

Answer 7

wait until tonight and talk to him about it. If you trust him, and honestly believe that he wasn't with another girl, then stay with him.

The best thing to do is listen to all the details he tells you about his trip, and then in about 4 days or so ask him again but ask him about certain things about his trip and compare his answers to the ones given tonight, see if they match up. If they don't dump him cause hes hiding something.

Answer 8

Hey its the weekend so go out and have some fun!.


Oh and i think you just need to chill out !.. Its far to early for you to be getting stressed out about this guy!..

Answer 9

I think you should wait and if he doesn't get in touch with you within a couple of days don't get mad just forget about him until he contacts you.

Answer 10

Whoa nelly. . . it's only been a week. If everyone says he treated his other girls like garbage . . . well guess whay honey. . . . you're next in line. He will most likely treat you like garbage as well!