This guy chases after me for the past couple of weeks and was so desperate to have sex with me. Last night, we were going to do it and once he knew I am a virgin (by chance, I didn't want him to know it), he JUMPED away and said: "No way! I wouldn't be the first one! I don't want to be the first one!! You will complain a lot later!" He still called/texted me but the atmosphere became so weird! Guys, can you tell me WHAT HAPPEN???
2006-07-21 04:26:31 · 21 answers · asked by trafficjamintown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's just like a cheap SOAP!
He really JUMPED and I could not believe how surprised he looked! Even though his pexxs was already so hard at that time!!!
2006-07-21 04:40:27 · update #1
Come to fl i'll knock it down for him, then he can have his way with you :)
2006-07-21 04:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Brad Z 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well.......just like he said he doesn't want to be the first and that u might complain a lot later. He's probably right becoz most gurlz doing it 4 the 1st time usually complain to their friends depending how good or lame it was......(which usually is lame and ofcourse that's becoz it's the girl's 1st time)........but u always blame the guys 4 it. U shouldn't worry abt that at all neither rush into it cause u'll do it till ure fatigue!
2006-07-21 11:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by mustbtru07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A fear that a lot of guys have is being a girls first. When put in such a position he will never be forgotten, you won't forget anything about him and he will always be known as the guy who took your gift. Not many guys want that label, in many cases it can be a burden if the relatioship were to end. As well, it doesn't sound like an established relationship just a booty call, and trust me you do not want to lose your V-card as a booty call.
2006-07-21 11:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by Paktown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman but I happen to know a thing or two about this kind of a situation. He maybe just wanted a one night or one day thing and haven't that issue in his conscience was too much for him, at least he realized that that moment should be with somoen that you love and loves you truly in return! Thank god he didn't!!! But maybe if you all continue talking and everything works out and you all form a stable realtionship you might have sex, have faith, God is preventing you from being hurt!
2006-07-21 11:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look i think if your ready then ok but if he doesnt want to be the first then fine dont let him be. Most girls want there first to be with someone special not with just anyone. So take your time. Have you heard that song by Lyfe Jennings S.E.X. Listen to it if u havent. But dont be in no rush once u loose it u will never get it back.
2006-07-21 11:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by BabyV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm! Umm! Umm!
Hello!!! IDIOT!!! R U there???
They guy doesn't want to have sex with you because he knows he's not going to be around. If you really are a virgin, save it for your husband. Stop trying to give it up so fast. Go and tell your parents this same story you just told the entire yahoo audience, and see what they have to say!!!
You need your butt kicked for not recognizing that there are still some men around who have respect for women. Little girls in your case. Concentrate on your education and not on who's gonna be the first to make you pee pee on yourself!
2006-07-21 11:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by Brighteyes9541 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How comes you didn't want him to know, yet you claim that he knew. Listen, it always hurts to see a loved one cry, and believe me, that is what he is avoiding. If only he had a choice, he won't have been desperate. Be human and do understand him.
2006-07-21 11:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by chipsy3plus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're still a minor then don't blame him. If you're 18 and above then maybe he fancies someone with experience. Anyway, there's a first time for everything and everyone in this world. Don't despair, someone will make his grand entrance into your life.
2006-07-21 11:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably he has a conscience. what he probably wanted was a chase and sex is all. didnt want to have the relationship following which he is assuming will happen, and didnt want to dissapoint you or hurt ur feelings, so he is keeping away...looks like he was in it for the sex only...
2006-07-21 11:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy.. but most guys don't want to be a girl first because we hold a special connection with our first sexual partner.. and tend to fall in love and hold onto that person.. so if he doesn't want to lose your virginity to him then he doesn't care that much.. If he loved you then he wouldn't care.. sounds to me like he just wanted in your pants..
2006-07-21 11:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but i think he had a bad experience in that matter i mean he could hurt some one B4 coz he did it in a wrong way. well i prefer you ask him about that and try to comfort him that its OK and u both will do it right
2006-07-21 11:32:33 · answer #11 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋