2006-07-21 04:09:30 · 17 answers · asked by sweet_angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is the one you truly love, then go through with it. If he honestly loves you and wants to be with you in that way. Then go for it.I hope you make the RIGHT choice. Don't regret it.
2006-07-21 04:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait!! If you really love him like you say, and he loves you, then you would both take sex very seriously and want to be sure that you can handle the responsibilty of it. Have you discussed it already? What if you get pregnant? Can you deal with that? You are young (I know you might not feel young but you are). It's very likely that you won't be with this guy forever. That's just reality. How will you feel if you become close physically and emotionally with this guy and then in a year or less you break up? It will be ten times harder if you slept with him. Trust me, I know. I'm not too much older than you (in my twenties) so I speak from experience. As hard as it is, you should wait until you are much older. Waiting can never be a bad thing, only good. Don't let him pressure you. If he does than he doesn't love you like he says. Bottom line is that since you say you are afraid, you should not have sex with him.
2006-07-21 11:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by ghw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out for a while and don't think about the sex so much you know. It might be all he wants so at least have some thing sgo youre way in the relationship for a while and then maybe give him some. THis way if he's a jerk at least there are some good memories you know. Always always always use a condom, don't be duped in to not using one for any reason. I don't care what he says or thinks he feels, use it. Your 16 and you don't need no Jr's running around.
2006-07-21 11:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys think differently about sex. You may love him and he may tell you that he loves you but at that age guys tend to just want sex. If there is any doubt in your mind about having sex don't do it. You aren't ready. In fact 16 year olds aren't ready. Ask yourself this...are you ready to bring a baby into this world? If you are not ready to give up your life as you know it I wouldn't risk having sex with this boy.
2006-07-21 11:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think about this. Your virginity you only have once. Do not lose it to someone that you may not even be with a year from now. Respect yourself and save yourself for marriage, then you will truly understand the beauty of saving yourself for only one guy.
2006-07-21 11:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has sex with you it statutory rape. You are not 18, he's over 18, that makes it illegal.
Have you thought about getting pregnant? Oh, I know he promises not to get you pregnant, he uses protection. Don't fall for that B.S.
2006-07-21 11:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready for having sex, you will not be afraid. If you are afraid you are not ready.
Wait and be true to yourself
2006-07-21 11:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it--it's illegal. Statutory rape can get him a prison term, so if you really love him, hold off a year.
2006-07-21 11:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by cross-stitch kelly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no , yes yes yes. but I m sure u will do what u want. if u want to hv go ahead. need to think prior to if pregnant, he leaves you....... then take a decision. OK
2006-07-21 11:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by chupke chupke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come and we will have safe sex
2006-07-21 11:13:25 · answer #10 · answered by rintu s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋