NOT THAT I WOULD LIKE TO.
but one of my friends who is a girl fools around with her best friend who is also a girl. does this make her bi? she feels really bad about it and she feels ashamed. i don't think she should be though. what are your thoughts on this?
2006-07-21 03:51:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she did it once only. she feels a little bit ashamed because i think partially because she is christian. she thinks it was wrong
2006-07-21 04:04:49 · update #1
If she feels shame about it she probably shouldn't do it. The question is, why does she fell ashamed about it? She should sort that out before she does anything else. It sounds to me like she is Bi, if she wasn't she wouldn't keep doing it. There is nothing wrong with that. Maybe she's not ready for it emotionally.
2006-07-21 03:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless her beliefs and convictions prohibit such an act,she should not feel ashamed. If she is that "ashamed" about it then it is not for her. She tried it, didn't like how she felt afterword, DONE. if this is something she continues to do regardless of her feeling, then maybe she is being pressured to do it. Bottom line, if she likes it, and it doesn't effect her friend ship with the other girl, good for her. I don't know if that make her bi or not. I enjoy sex with both ladies and men, but only have relationships with men, and i am still not sure how i classify. I don't think it matters anyway.
Sounds like she is probably rather young. If this is the case, maybe sex with men or women should wait.
2006-07-21 11:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by ladyjno7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's bi. The reason she feels bad and ashamed about it is because she has yet to accept the fact that she is bi.
She shouldn't be ashamed of it.
2006-07-21 10:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldnt feel ashamed. Im 22 and ive had my fair share of hook-ups w/ girls, and really its just a sexual thing. I dont consider myself bi, because I dont want to "date" other women, I love men. But for the sexual conquest, it's all about experimenting and seeing what feels good. Tell her to relax, and don't worry about it. A lot more girls are doing this kind of thing than she probably thinks.
2006-07-21 10:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mandi, I think it is not your friend. It is YOU who is curious. It is ok babe. It is normal to do all that. No need to feel ashamed. Just try to go all the way to see if you like it. If you do like it, then you are bi.
2006-07-21 10:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it makes her bi but it shouldn't matter if she is or isn't.And she souldn't feel ashamed she hasn't done anything wrong.cause i think all of us women are a little Curiouse about other women. good luck
2006-07-21 10:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's Bi if she's still into men too, She's lesbian if she just wants women. It's up to her how she feels. If she feels guilty maybe she should stop.
2006-07-21 11:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be she is not sure of her sexual orientation yet. No big deal that I see. Tell her she shouldn't feel ashamed.
2006-07-21 11:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that... why feel ashamed?
2006-07-21 10:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by Uncle Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i have fooled around w/ my girlfriends too but i dont do it any more it was more to get attention from guys but now i have the perfect man and he is all i need...
2006-07-21 10:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋