I really like my best friend but she lives in Alabama and I live in Missouri but I am going to her house for four days should i tell her i like her then or should i wait? I dont think i would have time for a date except if it was a cruddy date like in her bedroom. So what should I do.
2006-07-21 03:45:19 · 7 answers · asked by Advice Needer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
timing is difficult - options:
o Tell her now and if it goes real bad cancel the trip - or go if it works out well
o Go and then tell her - and if it works out bad make sure you have a way home (make sure you have a way out before you take this option or else you are both going to have 4 unhappy days)
o Go and tell her on the 3rd day
2006-07-21 03:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her on your second day, that way if it goes bad at least you had two good days and two bad and your whole trip isnt ruined. say somthing really sweet to make her weak in her knees and just kiss her if its appropriate. i suggest you tell her on your second day because if things heat up it can be a worthwhile trip and you two can enjoy each other presence. also you never know untill you tell, i bet she has some sort of feelings for you, you never know! speak open mindly, it will be really hard, but at least you can leave saying you did it and that you tried, its better saying you tried than not trying at all! good luck and all the best.
2006-07-21 11:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her...do it in a really sweet, romantic way. How about, the day you leave....you leave her flowers and a card stating your feelings and thanking her for such a nice weekend? You could leave them someplace in her house so she'll find them after you leave. THAT would be SO sweet! Or if that's not possible....send her flowers. Get them delivered the day after you leave. Or if you want her to know while you're there...use your imagination. Bring a teddy bear with you....and ask her to "babysit" him while you run somewhere. Stick a note on the bear that says something silly like "My name's teddy, I like you...ps..so, does my owner." Something silly to make her laugh.
2006-07-21 10:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by k b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very difficult. Some girls would react differently as what you think. Get a good timing. If you think she would react negatively then dson't push the subject. Just make her feel special.
2006-07-21 10:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by my 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel..it will make things alot easier for both of you...and also tell her that she doesn't have to like you romantically so she doesn't get scared away. I'm just talking from experience!
2006-07-21 10:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jenifer O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say it best When you say nothing at all . Just let your actions speak for it self and she'll figureit out. wanna know a secret.? she proabably already knows it ! girls r sneaky like that.Just play along.
2006-07-21 10:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by Scorpiogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you guys have time to talk and be alone tell her how you feel.
2006-07-21 10:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋