This morning my 3 year old sister was crying so I went comfort her. My Grandma walks in and yelled at me b/c Hannah was cry. I didnt make her cry so was that fair to me?
2006-07-21 03:41:53 · 22 answers · asked by daddy's gurl 101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i do the same with my kids if one is crying our instinct is to yell at whoever is near because we think that person did something wrong to the child and then we later find out that the one we yelled at was not at fault i dont think your grandmother meant to make you feel like it is your fault i think she was just trying to get to the route of the problem and maybe she handled it wrong be dont take it to heart
2006-07-21 03:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by barbie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no oif course it isn't fair
but that is the burden of being an older sister
you have much more responsibility
But as tyou get older you will see the perks you will get a later curfew and mroe freedoms and she will be jealous
also she will look up to you and admire you
Its difficult now.. but there are so many positives to being an odler sister
2006-07-21 10:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by hanntastic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it was very unfair.
Most older people forget they were young once too. They forget to even ask what happened, instead some forget and judge immediately.
Sounds like you need to sit grandma down and explain to her how you feel.
2006-07-21 11:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Did you tell your Grandma that you didn't make your sister cry?
2006-07-21 10:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it wasn't fair that she yelled at you.she should have asked what was going on.and what made ur little sister start crying. instead of yealling at you and thinking that you made her cry. i hope you're day gets better.good luck
2006-07-21 10:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sometimes they like to jump the gun. dont take it to heart she probably just got tired of hearing her cry and had to blame it on something!as long as your sister knew what you were doin!no that wasnt fair though!
2006-07-21 10:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it was not. Now go yell at Grandma. Show her your not going to take.
2006-07-21 10:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by catnap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it was natural for you to want your sister to be okay.
If your Grandma was having a problem with her, she shouldn't have made it your problem, too. She should have allowed you to help your sister.
2006-07-21 10:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but did you explain what you were doing? It's good that you were being a good sister to your sister. Don't let it get you down.
2006-07-21 10:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lifes not fair just make the best of it you were wrong place at the wrong time
2006-07-21 10:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋