There is this older boy I like (13 and i'm 11) and he likes me too but there is also another guy. He is 11 like me and I feel like I can talk to him more but I don't know if he likes me. Should I ask him if he does or just pick the other one who does like me?
2006-07-21 03:38:52 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get off the computer and go ask your mommy and daddy
2006-07-21 03:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're 11 do you really have to choose between them. You should date them both until you figure out who you like more, and once you figure it out date him. In all honesty, it's not like any relationship you have is going to last longer than a week or two.. but if you have to chose, I would say since you're more comfortable with the 11 year old kid, and you can talk with him, then definately keep him in the picture, because having a friend is better than having nothing at all.
2006-07-21 03:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by Gerri S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just a kid and do not HAVE to choose a boyfriend. Just enjoy being a kid. All those complex problems that arise from dating will sort themselves out if you just sit back and observe.
Be friends with many boys and when you do pick a boyfriend you'll know what traits work best for you.
You have plenty of time. My kids couldn't date until they were in High School. Worked out great and 3 have wonderfull relationships. The 4th is only 15.
2006-07-21 03:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the boy you like if he likes you, which it sounds like he is a really good friend all ready because you can talk to him about anything. Means you are so young , it is okay to have both boys as friends you have plenty of time to think of which boy you might want to go steady with some day.
2006-07-21 03:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is cute. ur 11 and u have the problems of a 20 year old. id say wait longer. see which one is best for you. u dont have to decide now, just be friends with them both, and give it some time. ur only 11, its not like you will do much more than hold his hand.....i hope
2006-07-21 03:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you like the both of them? and if you were to ask the other if he likes you then you would be in a delima, because then you wouldn't really know which one to pick. so just wait for the time is right and who ever ask you out 1st go with it. your only 11 and this is just the beginning
2006-07-21 03:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're eleven... nothing wrong with you liking them both as friends. You're too young for a serious relationship... and although the boys are older, they are too young as well. Enjoy some friendships... those can last a lifetime. You will find out soon enough how long some romantic relationships last. Save yourself for the man you will meet someday... the man who will be your husband will respect you for it.
2006-07-21 03:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other one and the 11 year old can be ur friend. i know Leon K is a boys name, but actauly im on my brothers account. im a girl (age 14) and thats my advice. uh oh, if my brother sees this hes gonna get so mad (hes 16) well i hope that helps!
2006-07-21 03:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by Leon K. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well who do you like more? Do you like the 13 yr old just because he likes you? My first thought was to see if the 11 yr old was interested in you cause it sounds like you really like him better
2006-07-21 03:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick the 11 year old!! the 13 year old must be a reall loser if he can only get an 11 year old. seriouly im a dude i know these things.. the 11 year probebly cool!!!
2006-07-21 03:41:32 · answer #10 · answered by bill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you like??? The one you like more should be your fisrt choice. If you don't know how he feels about you, you should just let him know that you would like to know more about him and start talking to him. Little by little show him that you are interested in him and you should know soon if he feels the same way. Believe it or not at that age boys are scared to show their feeling about girls so take it slow and good luck
2006-07-21 03:44:27 · answer #11 · answered by cowboybronco01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋