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We've been dating officially a month and it was originally posted before he and I were dating, but, yesterday when I was trying to find someone for friend of his, I accidently had woman seeks mand instead of the other way around and low and behold I found my bf, with 4 great pics and a very good description, stating he'd been active in the past three days. I jokingly said oh look at this cute guy and he laughed a little and said I'd get used to the fact he was slow at updating things, so, do I give it a while before I say anything about it or do I go ahead and express how much I'd appreciate if he didn't have a profile anymore? Thanks for all the advice!!! I'm not the jealous type and I trust him but it still doesn't seem cool to me lol. I just don't want to be in the wrong or come off as controlling.

2006-07-21 03:06:15 · 8 answers · asked by teachersapple7 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

We've been friends and known each other for about a year and were hanging out for a while before officially dating. We have had the serious committment conversation and he has been trying to help his friend find someone but that still all seems shady to me.

2006-07-21 03:20:19 · update #1

Sorry I mean we did hang out for a while before officially dating.

2006-07-21 03:20:52 · update #2

8 answers

Definitely! Unless he's kinda spacey and doesn't think to do things. Otherwise, he's leaving room for opportunity

2006-07-21 03:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by S M 1 · 1 0

Well I honestly don't belive you 'accidentially' looked him up, but okay, if that's what you want us to believe....

To answer your question, I would be a little ticked that it's there, but it has only been a month. At this point things can still go either way. Unless you seriously had the "commitment" conversation. His being "slow" to update things notwithstanding, if he's spoken for the ad should be removed immediately especially since you've already said something about it, in so many words. If he doesn't take it down within the week, I'd just ask him why and to remove it. If he doesnt then that should be a wake up call for the fact that perhaps you are more secure in the stage of your relationship than he is.

2006-07-21 03:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0 0

your buddy is nice which you're making your profile inner maximum and might't be considered. seems such as you have evidence. new profile and a percentsince you have been at the same time. consult from him and shop on with your intestine. you deserve the ideal!

2016-11-02 11:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

If he was active in the last 3 days he is still shopping. Demand he take it off, if he doesn't, then he is not serious enough about you. Besides the fact that he didn't respect your wishes or your feelings.

2006-07-21 03:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0 0

Face the music, you are simply someone to pass time with until he finds his "Miss Perfect"; but here is where you get your revenge, none of those women are perfect and he's going to find out the hard way that you were probably best for him!

2006-07-21 03:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0 0

You could say something or you could set up a fake profile and contact him to see if he is really serious about you. I know.....I am bad!

2006-07-21 03:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Nope! If he's been active in the last few days, he's actively looking and so should you!

2006-07-21 03:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0 0

dump him they never change it will be hard but in the long run you will be better of bump him he is a dog

2006-07-21 03:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by connie l 1 · 0 0

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