My gf admitted to me that she just kissed a guy. She felt really bad about it and told me she loves me and it was a mistake!
2006-07-21 02:57:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she told you and all she did was kiss the guy and now feels bad about it, it is a good indication that she values your relationship and respects you enough to be honest with you; she deserves a second chance. If she does it again or has ever done it before, then no.
2006-07-21 03:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very hard decision you have to make. If she did tell you, that's kind of good that she didn't try to hide it. But once someone cheats on you, the trust is broken and you will be hurt by this and this is really hard to forgive. You need to decide for yourself if you can live with this. How long have you been going out? Since the trust is now broken, this can cause bitterness and fights. The healthy thing would be for you to move on, even though it may seem hard. Even when people give a second chance, it can happen again, or even if it doesn't, the pain will be there and the trust will not.
2006-07-21 03:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by jensilver77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just a kiss but still show her she's made a huge mistake and must not have taken ur relationship seriously to have done such a thing. But let her think this through..show her that you do not want to be played or hurt. Dont talk to her for a day or 2 let her take all this in...and then call her and show her how much she means to you so she knows and won't forget what a great guy she has as a bf.
2006-07-21 03:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Caro*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have the two of you been together? A kiss is definitely a big mistake - only you can judge the circumstances about how she says it happens. If that one event was the only time, and you are not otherwise suspicious about her behaviour with other guys, keep going out with her if you want.
2006-07-21 03:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a kiss? Sure give her another chance,one kiss should not break up a relationship. But find out why she felt the need to kiss him.
2006-07-21 03:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by Yakuza 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way it was a mistake is if she was drunk or if he kissed her and she didnt kiss back. Not saying that being drunk is okay but thats a preety solid excuse. Anyway, how do YOU feel about it? Are you willing to forgive? Does this normally happen or is this a one time thing? You need to give more details. Anyway, good luck!!
2006-07-21 03:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss is a little thing and the fact that she cares for you enough to tell you should mean a lot. There are far worst things then a stolen kiss. I would consider forgiving her. You need to be a man and decide for yourself.
2006-07-21 03:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, I wouldn't take her back if I were you..because, thats the start of infidelity..a kiss can turn into a lot more can't it? so I think you should leave her, if she loved you so much then why did she kiss another guy? I think she's pretty messed up..you deserve better.
2006-07-21 03:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by before&after 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is okay the flirt. The human animal is not made to be 100% faithful.
I say you need to kiss a girl that you always wanted to but have your girlfiriend watching. then you guys will be good.
Good Luck
2006-07-21 03:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by teenriodoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would but I would also make sure that she knows that if she does it again, it's over.
She admitted it to you and it was just a kiss. Would you rather someone else told you?
2006-07-21 03:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋