My girlfriend all the time is behind me to do further studies after my gratuation so that i get better job. But i am not sure whether i will be able to earn a lot. She is financially well off and doing good in her career and she says that financial differences between us will create fights in future. Her parents are not ready to accept me because of my finanacial incapacity. I am 24years. I told her that if she can cope up with my low salary than we will continue. Really i dont want to break up with her. I am confused. please help.
2006-07-21 02:49:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should believe yourself. We will earn more if you believe in yourself. She is trying to help you out. It is good for you if you do further studies. And if talking about your relationship, she has suggested good way out. this will help you to carry on your relationship without any fights. You should be confident about yourself. It seems like you have no faith in you. If you love her and want to keep relationship with her, please walk on the way has she has suggested. This is for your better future. AND IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE YOURSELF THEN TELL HER AND CONVIENCE HER TO BE WITH YOU IN EVERY UPs AND DOWNs. Don't think of break-up, if she loves you, she has to be with you
2006-07-21 03:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by crazychori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your dreams, goals, aspirations? Those are what you need to follow, not hers. If you are interested in graduate school, then go. If you can find a job you are happy with, then take it. If you can hold down a job, then that is saying a lot. Money should not be an issue if you love each other, but it can be a huge burden on a marriage. If you two do not see eye to eye on the salary issue, that is a deal breaker - you won't be able to have a happy relationship. What is important is for you to do what makes you happy. Someone who cannot support your goals and career in life cannot support you.
2006-07-21 03:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question here is what is your current job/career...and are you happy?
Like...if you were happy being a video store clerk, then yeah...she's right, and you're a deadbeat.
But if you're a teacher, and your work is rewarding and helping others...but doesn't pay well....then she's wrong, and you should look for someone less superficial.
So what you really need to do is post what your job is, and what your future plans are.
Girls need stablity in a man...drive and motivation is attractive.
Crazy huh?
2006-07-21 02:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 11:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it's a question of is she willing to love you if you make less than her? If her love depends on the size of your pay check maybe you should rethink this relationship.
2006-07-21 02:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want her, you have to do what she says. If not, don't.
2006-07-21 02:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋