I am 14 and I've never done it with anybody. Is it really that great?
2006-07-21 02:46:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I don't plan on doing it either.
2006-07-21 02:47:32 · update #1
Good for you! Sex can be very wonderful, but also very hurtful if you don't wait for the right person, which would be the one you will spend the rest of your life with. Imagine the gift you can give to your husband if you have never allowed anyone else to have that special part of you. I think the mistake most young girls make is thinking that sex=love...it may in their eyes, but trust me honey, no matter what is coming out of that boys mouth, sex just equals sex to him, not love.
2006-07-21 02:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've never gone horseback riding with anyone?
Kidding. It's not great. It's being used by another person for his sexual gratification and you'll be miserable after it's all over. Of course, if you're in love, it's another story. Then it's sharing the most intimate of relationships with someone you adore. But at 14, you have no concept of mature love between a man and a woman. You'll get sexual urges, sure, but not love. You have to be an adult to really be in love. But most young people think they're different and what they're feeling at age 14 or 16 or 18 is a bonding with their soul mate (yeah, the hottie that sits next to you in history class and won't take you to the movies unless you "put out.") So the best thing I can tell you is to do what you feel is best for you, when you feel it's best for you, and don't give in to pressure, from a guy or your "friends."
2006-07-21 09:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by CarolO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is absolutely great!
However, it is wrong for you to have sex as per the law. You are not an adult and any such attempt would be looked upon as rape committed on you by your sexual partner.
I am no doctor, but a 14 year old girl is not mentally and physically prepared for that experience. Not yet.
Having a sexual desire is normal and certainly not a crime. So quit feeling guilty about it. Desire is not immoral, succumbing to it is.
Discuss your feelings clearly with someone elder in the home like your mom. Get involved in a hobby or a sport. Learn to appreciate your inner beauty. make friends, socialize and most important...STUDY HARD.
Sex will come in your life....at the right time....and with the right person. Dont rush it.
Cheers !!!
2006-07-21 09:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by namaste_achha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's nice, but there are alot of other things that are important in life. Sex doesn't always make people happy. It just feels good for the moment and then it's over. Glad to see you don't plan on doing it soon. Enjoy your teenage years and leave sex for later when you grow up.
2006-07-21 09:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by swaman33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly can be, but it can also be pretty pathetic. Just depends who you're doing it with and how you feel about them. You don't have to love someone to have great sex - you might have great sexual chemistry and not even get along that well.
Some guys just don't get it and have no imagination. Others see it as an art form. Sex comes in just as many versions as art does, good, bad, ugly, ugly but still popular, all of it.
2006-07-21 09:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im glad you don't feel like trying it anytime soon. and sex isn't that great, its more of a temporary thrill, i guess you would say. you feel great for a while but then its over and you could end up with an STD, or you could be pregnant. save it for later, for someone you love
2006-07-21 09:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be when you meet the right guy and your old enough to deal with the consequences. Yes it is great when your with the right person.
2006-07-21 09:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the best thing in the world. It's best to wait for that special one and to wait until you are older. The only way not to get pregnant is not to do "it". The wait will be worth it.
2006-07-21 09:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...it's a pretty great thrill but it's not the best thing you could do...not doing it at your age is a good thing...prevention of pregnancy is always a good call...
2006-07-21 09:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till u get a lil older its hurts at first but after that it feels great but once its gone u cant get it back...so think before u let it go!!
2006-07-21 09:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by babysuga817 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋