Im 7 months pregnant and just found out i was being cheated on.
2006-07-21 02:44:58 · 4 answers · asked by foxzie006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This has to bite the big one. This is the last thing you need when you're expecting. I would get out of the relationship just for the simple fact that if this bum will cheat while your pregnant, then he will continue cheating. It takes a real low life to cheat on his love one and even lower to cheat on his future childs mother. Save yourself a lot of heartache and get out, he can be your babies father, he doesn't need to be your man. You deserve better. Good Luck.........
2006-07-21 03:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, boy, I'm so sorry! The answer will be different on whether you are married, or just going out with the guy and for how long... Cheating shouldn't be condoned at any time, but sometimes a sacrifice has to be made on behalf of a family - if the guy cops to it and is also willing to make a commitment. Counselling would be good, to see if you two have a shot to make it together. You do, however, have to concentrate on yourself now, and this babe you are carrying. Stress is not good for you both now. Maybe you had better get tested for STDs right away, so at least that won't weigh upon your mind. I wish you luck, and happy baby!
2006-07-21 09:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear that. Not a good feeling when you are pregnant (the same happened to me) You need to make sure that you and your baby are taken care of first, the rest will work itself out as time goes on. Just because you are pregnant with his child doesn't mean you have to stay with him, your choice. But make sure you and the baby are taken care of.
2006-07-21 09:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by metalicgirl69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, get tested for sexually transmitted diseases. Your unborn child's health could be at risk.
Second, decide if you are going to stay with the baby's father and if he is planning to stay with you. If so, you two need to work on the rules of your relationship. If not, you have to work on the rules of your parenting your child separately.
Third, you don't have to have a relationship with his family beyond any visitation you choose to have for the sake of your child. That only requires common courtesy. In fact, if they are not emotionally mature, it is healthier for you and your child to not be exposed to toxic people.
2006-07-21 09:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋