Me and my girl were together for nine years and been having problems so we split up for a while. Well while I was gone her family needed help because they couldnt pay their bills so they move in, and now she tells me they kind of pushed her to the side and took over the house. They do what they want, their filthy people the house is filthy, they let their kids do whatever the hell they want. Well Im going to move back with her, what or how should I tell them they need to go, since it was her that let them stay there,
2006-07-21 02:22:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She needs to sit them down and saythat they need to start figuring out anothe arragment as you two are getting back together and that you both need to work on your own relationship alone. they should repect that and hopefully have been trying to save or whatever to be abvle to be on their own.. If they don't then that is their problem and don't appriceate what she has done for them.
2006-07-21 02:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 1⤋
This is not any thing easy and if the house is a rented house and she is the one paying for the rent. I will just leave her in her pathetic situation with her family and move on.
Suppose those people don't have any were to go what are you going to do ? Is this woman more important than your peace of mind and well being ?
2006-07-21 10:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sir, that is not your problem. She has to be the one to tell her family that they should go. You don't own the property, so it's nothing you can do. They can actually have you taken to jail for trespassing. Also you have no rights because you are not married to this young lady. Be careful you could get yourself into a world of trouble.
Let your girl handle it.
2006-07-21 09:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by BigTyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she'd be grateful for the help in getting rid of them, she might be grateful of someone one step removed to dig her out of the situation, it is so hard to say anything when you are part of the family, people don't listen so well whereas if someone on the outside says something it gets through better.
2006-07-21 09:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by sereneicequeen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the landlord or seek legal advice, but tell them first and see the response.
2006-07-21 09:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by firewall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them yall are getting married they will understand then they will want you to have your privacy besided dont you want all those free gifts
2006-07-21 09:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋