um hey, my gf said she is saving her self for the one, like she would marry him and stuff. would it be wrong of me to sleep with her anyway, if i have no intension of being with her for a long time. ( she said im the one and loves me etc.. and will sleep with me) i see her as a short term gf.. what you think??
2006-07-21 01:48:27 · 20 answers · asked by bill 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're a pig.
2006-07-21 01:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great Boss.. You have a heart. The answer for this is straight. First think of few things :
1. Do you love this girl?
If yes then.... you should know the reasons for not being with her.
If No then..... I didnt understand why this question got into your mind. Because we never think of any one whom we dont love. There is something bugging in your heart. You dont belive her or you are feeling insecured or you have eyes on some other girl or there is something in your heart.
2. From how much time do you know this girl? Are you sure about what she says is true? Or she trying to play with your heart and sentiments?
Some times whether its boy or girl, if they find the other partner to be good and the one who values a relationship, they try to play with the heart. So get it confirmed.
If you are confirmed with what she said is true then, buddy! you are damn lucky to get a girl like that.
If No... you know what to do.
But remember one thing.. its not just sleeping for a day that makes difference, your heart is going to say..." You cheater" for long time if she is a good girl.
In any relationship whether its short or long, truth plays the main role. Just be truthful with what ever you do. Be straight, tell her that sorry i dont have the intention of being with you all my life. I am interested in you and dont know when you may be out of my heart. May be she will like your frankness.
Remaining everything in your hands. But think a lot before you decide.
2006-07-21 02:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Nickyjam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a jerk and sleep with her if you have no intentions of staying with her. You answered your own question, you said "I see her as a short term gf" so why ruin this girls life. If you DO sleep with her she is going to fall in-love with you, and you are not ready for that.
2006-07-21 02:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by ImWaiting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU STUPID?????????????????
did your parents not teach you anything about sex after marriage?
Yes I can understand the times and all this junk you young people think you can do...but your not respecting her AT ALL>
you don't care for her..I wish I had her number cause I tell her your no good for her.
As you can see her parents have raised her better then yours.
This question is SOOOOOOO STUPID.
What nerve you have....go get some help.
Think about others feelings before yourself...and grow up cause you probably don't even know what to do.
DUMB>>>>>DUMB>>>>DUMB....this is just plain NUTS.
You knew you were going to get it from all types of folks for putting this Q. up so what is it you want attention???
Talk to your parents and ask them what they would do.
2006-07-21 02:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an idiot. Why do u waste her precious time if you obviously think you deserve more than this one girl? Are you staying with her just hoping that smb will help you get laid finally? Moron...Leave her alone, she can find a better guy who loves her for who she is, not for some kinky stuff. You're definitely not THE ONE for her.
2006-07-21 02:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my word...do u wana break her?? DONT sleep with her if its only a short term gf!! Tell her how u feel...coz it seems like she REALLY likes u! ur goin to hurt her really bad...please dont do anythin u might regret later!! a girl savin for THE ONE is very important coz we loose a piece of ourselves! its good to see u r still uncertain on what to do....means inside u, u know u dont want her to get hurt! Hope u make the right desicion!!
2006-07-21 01:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by winterose* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Since she is only agreeing to sleep with you because she somehow got the idea that you're "the one", then you would be basically lying to her. She will hate you for the rest of her life, and you would feel awful about it.
Why not be honest with her and move on? Find someone else.
2006-07-21 01:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dosent matter if u sleep with her but first u should clear this thing with her.if she understaind u then its ok but if she dont then dont force her cause this girl love u but she is also right on her side.& y cant u be with hes for long time if she live u sooo much.its good for u. u r lucky to have such partner.but thats on u what u do.
2006-07-21 02:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by pank_ti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ruin her dream mate. Go find another girl now and leave her, youll only break her heart even more if you dont get out of this relationship pronto
2006-07-21 01:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, she will feel incredibly betrayed and hate you.
this is a very personal issue that she feels in this way about. you have no right to lie to her and make her do something she doesn't want to (it is something she doesn't want to do because if she knew the truth she wouldn't). if all you're looking for is sex then break it off and find a girlfriend who doesn't take sex so seriously.
2006-07-21 01:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely think you shouldn't violate her in that way. I absolutely think you should move on if she is short term. Respect her wishes and show yourself to be a caring person.
2006-07-21 01:52:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋