well its about this guy that i love..he used to come up and talk to me or call me but since i have showed him that i really care alot about him he started playing hard to get then what can I do so he would come after me as he used to??or is it impossible??
2006-07-21 01:45:48 · 20 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gurl i had the same problem happen to me. the same exact thing infact. umm just let him do his thing. trust me he likes you. just go with the flow, and just watch what he does. Still be nice to him and him birthday cards and give him something for valentines day. ok
2006-07-21 01:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by Maddie Renee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you didn't scare him with your method of showing him that you really care a lot about him. Some men do freak out if you come on too strong too fast.
I'd reassess what your actions were. Sorry not trying to point the blame on you. If you were reasonable, go after him. When he comes back you play a little NOT TOO MUCH and neither should he be playing too much.
2006-07-21 08:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it always up to the man to do all the running.
Hes probably fed up of chasing you,playing hard to get only lasts for a short time before it goes either of 2 ways
1)they get bored with chasing a lost cause
2)you give in
2006-07-21 08:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get is a game that two can play. I suggest you follow his lead.
2006-07-21 08:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is impossible. ask him what is up? why he is playing hard to get. he is probably nervous that you care so much. just talk to him and find out what he is thinking...
2006-07-21 08:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by alr@yahoo.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing hard to get,let him make all the moves if you wanna get caught.
2006-07-21 08:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you gave him the "upper hand" and now, he thinks he has 'control' and wants You, to persue him...
LOL!!!
Is he worth it? Thats the big question to you...
If he is worth, investing your time in, then go for it, but, if you dont think he will be good husband material, (after all, dating is only shopping around for a husband, so, take it for what it is!)....
He sounds a bit immature, for you wanting to "chase him", but, if he is worth it, then it will be worth the effort to "bring him around" to your way of thinking...
(Yea, we Husbands know that your out to change us, and we all take you for what you are...It boggles our minds, then, when you DO change us, you claim we are not the MAN YOU MARRIED!!)...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-07-21 08:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to play the dating game right
2006-07-21 08:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by Elite female 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he liked a challenge he probaly thought he wouldnt be able to have you now since you started liking him he probaly got a lil scared.Start playing hard to get again.act indiffrent like if he wants you fine if he dosent oh well its his loss
2006-07-21 08:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u pLay hard-to-get too? x) get away from him for a week and wait for him to caLL u first. if he doesn't caLL u,, then just caLL him and say that u miss him--remember,, u have to say this easiLy Like u're joking,, then wait for his response.. hope this can heLp!
2006-07-21 08:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by mariana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋