ne else who is much worthier and talented than me! He terribly broke my heart! I tried things like YOGA, part time jobs to keep me occupied, but to vain! I had a chance to revenge his girlfriend but my conscience held me back! Cud you help me with what thinking should I adopt so that I can forget him completely!
2006-07-21 01:12:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the solution to your problem--There are 6 billion people on this earth and 226 different countries. Expand your mind and expand your world. Pining away over one person is positively silly.
2006-07-21 01:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by brian_hahn_32 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by trying to take your mind off him and especially for not seeking revenge! (That would have just been petty.) What you have is basically a "crush". Why are they called a crush? Because there is no way for your love to be returned, so you are "crushed". Unfortuantely it is human nature to desire what we can't have. The fact that you know this love can never be returned makes you want it all the more.
Stick to doing other things and keeping your mind busy. Try to go out on other dates and do your best to focus on "being with your date" when you do. Time has a way of taking care of everything and in time you will find someone that will take the place of this crush. I wish you the best!
2006-07-21 01:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you're on the right track, stay on the yoga and the part time job, or you could look into volunteering somewhere. As you say you could always try forgetting him. You do say he was in love with someone else, so he is taken. Not married, but, taken. Move on.
2006-07-21 01:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 01:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by hashrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are focusing too hard on him, and you need to accept reality that he is with someone else, someone who, according to you, is more worthy of him. It sounds like you need to date more! You need someone else to take your mind off this guy. Find a hobby you really enjoy and throw yourself into it. Focus your attention everywhere else - stop thinking about him. If it was meant to be, he'd be with you. He's not so move on.
2006-07-21 01:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping yourself busy helps, but you could also help yourself by talking and going out with friends. One thing I stress, if you have anything in your possession that reminds you of him, throw it out. Say to yourself, he is not the one for me, there is someone else out there that will love me.
2006-07-21 01:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by Amenity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just focus on the things u really like to do. dont try stupid things like yoga, sorry, just let yourself flow for a while, dont try to force everything in a certain direction, just have a little faith in yourself.
2006-07-21 01:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by rotacka0687 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear..
first my sympathies to you..
& as solution..i suggest you get yourself involved in constructive activities..& keep yourself occupied..which you are already doing..keep up the good work..
make sure you are surrounded by frnds..& feel happy & wanted..
in due course of time you will surely forget him..& since you have set ur mind on it ..you will accomplish ..
my wishes & prayers for you
2006-07-21 01:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by suppu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some English lessons - your communication skills, or lack thereof, are probably what turned him off.
2006-07-21 01:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First just accept that he is not for you................If you will continue that, you will be hurt in the end just remember......life will go on without him and besides there are lots of guys out there...!
^_^
2006-07-21 01:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋