i like a boy ever since i was in the 9th grade hes quite simple n doesnt prefer going out with girls i havent told him as yet that i like him .my frnds say that this is just infatuation but i feel its love coz i just cant stop thinking abt him plzz help me out!!
2006-07-21 01:00:49 · 23 answers · asked by cool girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he doesn't go out with girls because he prefers the company of men
2006-07-21 01:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by Maestro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly you are excited about this boy... you are at that stage of life. Consider though the probability that the young man may like you as well, but as a friend. Girls are more mature than boys in general, so he'll have some catching up to do in terms of him starting to think about a relationship. Consider that love is patient and kind... so if indeed it is love, nothing will be able to stop it. The time may simply not be right now. Telling him how you feel may make him retreat... perhaps sharing your feelings only with your diary at this point makes since. In a couple months, reread your diary... you will find it enlightening.
2006-07-21 08:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him right away and it is infatuation not to diminsh ur feelings - infatuation is valid - it is just not how i define love
which is accepting another how they are and how they are not.
but tell him for sure AND even though you will naturally expect something back from him when u share ur feelings with him- try letting those expectations float back where they came from, the boy owes u nothing just because you think about him.
I hope he is kind and receptive to your good vibes!- but u will find out! Good luck sweetheart!
2006-07-22 18:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by zigzagidiot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. thats just whats lifes about when u r that age. sometimes u like someone and then later u think OMG what was i thinking he is a creep and prefers boys.
just remember that although it feels so important right now its not so important in the grand scheme of things. just do stuff that you enjoy. Try and talk to him if you want or just let time see what happens. just enjoy each day and have fun with your friends. dont worry about boys 2 much and remember they are probably just as confused as u r.
2006-07-21 08:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Susie Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he is shy, and unsure of himself, so, if you take the bull by the horns and go an tell him that you "like" him, you may find that he maybe your "life partner" for LIFE!
A lot of people are like that...
They are too unsure of themselves and dont want to make a fool of themselves in front of everyone, so they make like it doesnt matter if anyone talks to them or not. All the while, dying inside, because they are lonely...
You would be doing yourself and him a great favor by telling him that you care for him and actually like him a whole lot, and see what comes of it...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-07-21 08:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him that you care for him before you lose him to some other girls who simple don't care about him the way you do! Go, this is your chance to find love.
2006-07-21 08:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by a good listener 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wud advice u to go up to him casually n bfriend him. jus don ask "can v b friends?". jus start talking casually...abou sumthing around, weather or anythin u feel appropriate. then if u can c him next with out askin let it happen. butif not possible...jus ask for his email or cell no...if he hesitates...don ask again. he will contact u himself coz u wud hav shown him a bit of interest. but i mus say...u shud talk to a guy u like atleast once. go ahead no harm...gudluck but don say tht u like him etc mind it
2006-07-21 08:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by zeba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cry for help, just hits me in my heart, I know how you feel, but you need to go and find out how he thinks of you. If ya don't, its gonna drive ya insane.
You need to be close to him, talk to him, and eat with him, be his best friend, and tell him, if ya have the strenght for it.
I so hope that you succeed.
2006-07-21 08:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try to hang with him as a friend first. Meaning, talk to him more and do things with him more. Then maybe he will start to have the same feelings you have for him.
Tony / NiceGuy
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2006-07-21 08:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it and forget what your friends say. Maybe he's just shy. Let him know you are into him and see if he wants to go out with you sometime. It never hurts to ask.
2006-07-21 08:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋