hey... i have a problem: i think im love with someone but i dont know how to deal with it. Here's the deal, the girl im in love with is my THIRD COUSIN do you think its ok for me to date her??
2006-07-21 00:18:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Third cousin maybe. Honestly, it's totally legal if it's your third cousin (at least from what I've read), but depending on your family dynamics...that might not be a good move.
Why don't you go out and find someone else? Then you won't have to worry so much.
If your family seems ok with it...I guess you could make a move like she was a regular chick.
Here's one thing to think about; If you do go out with her and ya'll break up. You're still pretty much stuck with her, like an ex-wife. Family is family, and she's not going any where. So if you do this, it better work out or all family reunions going forward are going to uncomfortable.
At least with other chicks you can break up and be done with them.
Good Luck.
2006-07-21 00:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though it is completely legal, I would suggest maybe you attempt to find someone farther from your family tree. There are 6 billion people on Earth, I'm sure you can find someone else. It's just slightly weird, and think about how many times you will have to explain that at a dinner party!
2006-07-21 07:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Candi H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, a relationship with a third cousin is morally and socially acceptable. we are all related as the bible says, so it has to be a boarder somewhere and i think the third knee is ok
2006-07-21 07:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by michaga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should not be the middle man. You might love this girl, but she may not feel the same about you, love get only be strong if two people feel the same. I would say no you should not
2006-07-21 07:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by butterflyfrills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, what happened to the the first two cousins?
Seriously, she's your THIRD cousin, for cryin out loud. You are not even related to her.
Just go for it!!!
2006-07-21 07:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by profdave99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's legal, but maybe you should talk to each of your parents to see what they think of it. if you're family doesn't have a problem with it then go for it, if they do have a problem and you don't care what they think then go for it too.
2006-07-21 07:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it should be alright if she's only your third cousin,i don't think it would make such a big fuss
2006-07-21 07:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask if you're in love
then you aren't..
you can always "love" her in a brother-sister family kind of way, and yes you can date her just don't be too passionate with her she is aftre all your relative
2006-07-21 07:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by Xianpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
Your family will have a fit
2006-07-21 07:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋