There were some guys who had the nerve to come up to me and say that they think I'm cute and that they wanted to go to bed with me or they act like gentlemen and then later just treat me like a piece of a**. It seems that some guys just want me for my body. How can I tell if a guy sees me as "easy" or attractive? Well, one of the obvious signs is if the guy stares at you from head to toe, has his eyes fixated on your a**, legs and chest and wears a disturbing grin.
2006-07-20 23:36:18 · 6 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you aren't dressed provocatively and he approaches you, treats you like a lady (yes, there are still some around!), with respect, doesn't stare at your "physical attributes" and treats you like a HUMAN, not a piece of meat... chances are pretty good he's a good find.
if they try to act like a playa, "spitting game," (ooh, girl you so fine, let me holla at you, oooh girl we gotta get up sometime, etc), tell him if he wants to ever hang out with you, you must be approached and treated like a lady. demand the respect you deserve girl. if he can't do it, or doesn't know how to, is he worth the time? and if he was just after the booty, he won't take or make the time to treat you right.
nothing personal, but, from experience... if you wear booty shorts and a bathing suit top and stiletto heels - girl, you gotta expect guys are going to stare at the "stuff" you are putting out there. if you dress like a hoochie, you will attract hoochie flies -- feel me? you don't have to dress like a librarian to deflect these kinds of guys. but, be selective in what you choose to accentuate. it's natural for guys to assume a girl who dresses like she wants to get ******, just wants to get ******.
hope this helps! :)
2006-07-20 23:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a brother's point of view let me say one thing give us a small break. Don't blame us it was GOD that created the woman body to be a work of art. Now as far as telling if a brother is interested in you and not just your body, he will display interests in more things that just your body. When you two first really get to know each other, and he is not just trying to rip the zipper off your pants the you know you have someone. But on the other hand communication is the key, because we as men will tell you what you wanna know when you ask either voluntarily or stupidly.
2006-07-21 00:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by DUKE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter what you wear, but make sure you're not advertising if you're not selling. Then if guys approach you, take time to listen to what they have to say. If you're not interested in givin' it up, let them know. If they were just searching for some booty, they'll disappear quicker than a paycheck at the mall,LOL. Know your own self worth and don't let some sex fiend disrespect you. Come correct and demand that they guys come correct. After a while, the word will be for only the good guys to holla. Take care.
2006-07-20 23:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Raye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes a guy who has been to an all boys school is shy with women because he has not spent time interracting with women talk to him about things he knows like sport holidays and so on then he can expres himself soon he will see you as a friend then the relationship can begin if he loos away he is being polite
2016-03-27 01:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know the guy, you really can't tell.
Other people who know him might be able to tell you.
2006-07-20 23:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by kayef57 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are signs by which you can tell read some articles on this site it will help you
2006-07-20 23:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋