Met this guy on the net 2 months ago, really like him, and getting mixed vibes from him. He does call me 2 or 3 times a day, and i did meet the family this last weekend, but yet he will not voice any of his feelings. He just says he doesn't want to jump in, and he says he is just trying to get to know me and enjoy the situation.
Any male translations for this please?!!!
2006-07-20 23:33:47 · 16 answers · asked by happyballerinagirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he didn't like you - he would have been pleasant to you when you first met face to face and then disappeared into the ether. The fact that he's still in touch is a good sign. If he has been single for a while, he might feel that although he would like to get involved with someone, it can seem like quite an upheaval to the way of life he is used to. If you appear too keen, this can be offputting as well.
2006-07-20 23:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Friseal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he want to take things slow. He may not be ready for a big commitment, but it sounds as if the interest is there as you are talking a lot and meeting his family. Just relax and enjoy what you have now, in about six months, then maybe talk about feelings.
2006-07-20 23:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact that he calls you 2 -3 times a day and has introduced you to his parents is pretty intense after just knowing him 2 months don't worry about him not talking about his feelings he probably doesn't have any strong feelings on much at the moment and you're probably scaring him a bit if you're asking him how he'd feel about really deep long term things...... chill.... enjoy it
2006-07-20 23:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scared
2006-07-20 23:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by muffin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so sounds like the guy is shy. Us blokes are crap at telling are true inner thoughts & it seems like early days in your relatinaship. I presume you like him & i presume he likes you, if you have met family already so, be patient girl - he'll come
round or you could just ask him if he wants to carry it on, at least that way you can break early, rather things getting messy all round.......good luck
2006-07-20 23:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time. Most of the time, it seems like in a relationship, one wants to move more slowly. That's okay. He may have been hurt in the past and is afraid to trust his heart again.
2006-07-21 00:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by da dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs time... pull back a little and see how he reacts... you can take it from there. By the way men are always looking of getting into your pants... so check that angle out as well
2006-07-20 23:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by Shalako 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy the situation.
2006-07-20 23:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by mu_sa_kossan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's only just met you. he's also probably scared of commirment and want's to get to know you first. give him a chance, he'll open up to you in the end
2006-07-20 23:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by russellhamuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was burned by another woman and is being cautious and taking it slow! Not a bad thing for either of you!
2006-07-20 23:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by old dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋