2006-07-20 23:15:46 · 26 answers · asked by sanju 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
marry her without your mother, there is no need for permission from your mother to marry her, the importance is you love her and she loves you back
2006-07-20 23:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask your mother's permission, are you old enough to be thinking of marriage? If you are fully aware of society's cruelty toward mixed marriages even in this day of supposed enlightenment, then go forward. What does the girl and her family think. Many times a marriage gets trouble from both families and then it's really hard to make the marriage work without some sort of support. Good luck in whatever you do.
2006-07-21 06:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by Moolu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm how can someone be a little black? She's either black or not black... If you're of legal age to marry why would you care what your mother thinks. It's your life/ you love/ etc etc.
Do what makes you happy and be accountable for any decision you do make. If you do marry this woman the obsticles with your family will have to be made very clear that this is your wife and respect the fact that she is your wife.
2006-07-21 06:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell you ask us what to do? When you know for sure that your mother is above any girl on this planet, so if she doesn't like the girl you love, you won't marry against her will. You better leave that girl alone cause you don't deserve her and let your mother find a girl for yourself, a "white" one...well, as "white" as an Indian can be...which is more yellow or light brown.
2006-07-21 06:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by DreamGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In an ideal world, this wouldn't be an issue, but is color the only reason that yor mom has issues with your fiance? Have a heart-to-heart because sometimes the issues are deeper than what may appear. Then if it's as trivial as the amount of melanin that is in a person's skin, then make your decision based on love. Skin color doesn't determine personality, affection, and the worth of a person, so don't let someone elses twisted beliefs tarnish yours. She is your mother so respect her wishes, but you are a man and you have to make your own decisions in your life. Be in peace my brother.
2006-07-21 06:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Raye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love there is nothing like black or white just listen to ur heart, but if she likes u or not then talk to mother that u loves her very much, tell ur mother that how much u loves her she have all the qualities to be ur wife.
2006-07-21 06:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by knickknok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont matter what ur mom says. she is being racist and that wrong im glad ur not like her. if u love this girl and she loves u then ur mom going to have to realize it or not be included on the happiest moment of ur life. im sure she will come around once she see how serious u 2 r. whatever u do dont give up on love cuz of someone as long as u both are together and in love its all good. who cares what others think this is ur life and she makesu happy then go 4 it.good luck man
2006-07-21 06:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!dont be coward like was my bf!Pls,if you really love her,if your love is so true and big then go ahead,marry her,dont even think once,true love happens once.
My past bf and i loved each other too much and till now we are crazy of each other,but we are not together,we got apart 2 month ago,just cause his parents didnt want me,cause im from another country,in my story he was some black,im white,but then also i must have never listened my parents and marry him,just cause my love is very true and big and i would have never leaved him,but just cause he loved his parents more than me,he choose them,how much im unhappy now,know only i and God,so dont make your loves life like hell,marry her and wish you all the happiness,i belive you surely wil be very happy together,i wish it from whole my heart,just pls dont be coward!!!
2006-07-21 06:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look chief, your mom isn't going to pay your bills once you move out and on with someone you love. If she doesn't like tell arranged marriages happen in one of those foreign countries and not here in the good ol' US of A!
2006-07-21 06:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's black. So what? That isn't a problem to me. Unfortunately mixed race children have problems in US society, because they are different from everyone else. If you do marry and have children, always tell your kids how special they are. Encourage them to find other kids like them.
2006-07-21 06:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by kram k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not ready for marriage anytime that your mother can tell you who to marry leave the girl alone , shouldn't you be marrying a grown woman not a little girl? grow up clown!
2006-07-21 06:22:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋