getting maried soon and shy to tlak with her . and what to talk with her ? do you ever face this type of situation ?
2006-07-20 22:38:12 · 9 answers · asked by will_be_frends 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
wait for the real time when you get married . or just try to indulge in the family matters and iit her home or talk on phone some commnucations are good before marrige but not to much .
2006-07-22 19:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sidd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i never been in this situation but i know what i would do. well u r not a virgin correct so u know what to do. remember lol no pressure but ur going to be the first guy and only guy to have sex so u need to make it good. so i dont think u should even talk bout it till the i do r done and ur in that room for ur honeymoon. undress her and kiss her show her u love her and tell her that u love her and will take it slow. im sure she has been looking forward to this day. so shouldnt be that hard just tell her u will be gentle and just start slow and then faster. be gentle man u have ur whole life to have wild sex. so just go slow and smooth break her in. thats what i would do. dont mention it it will be awkward. just take her in room and then boom do what i said. im sure u know what to do. u love her and would not want to make her uncomfortable. so yeah dont say a word till the day ur in that room. i think that be best ok.good luck and may u have a happy marriage. congrats
2006-07-20 22:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever wondered which hurts the most?
Saying something and wishing you hadn't?
Or saying nothing and wishing you had?
I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say.
Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them.
If you do, they might break your heart
If you don't, you might break theirs.
Too many of us hide our true feelings because we are too afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all.
Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what theywould have done, or could have had.
*What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye?
*What would you do if you loved someone more than ever and you couldn't have them?
2006-07-20 22:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you are not an American... Maybe Hindu or Pakistanese...
Your religion is very different, i know... and most Americans
would not understand your situation...
I do because I know other beliefs, and so, I understand your
question...
Basically, she possibly is shy too... Just be friends with her...
Talk about music, art, cooking, and games...
Be kind an gentle to her... She will appreciate you an get to
trust you...
You will be happy if you are patient with her...
Congratulations and Good luck.....
2006-07-20 23:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well iv been told the best way to maintain a marriage is to treat each day as if you where on a date, and this cam from some1 thats very happily married for 50 years
2006-07-20 23:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by darkangel999uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have never spoken to her then why are you marrying her?
Else speak to her like she is the mother of your children, your lover, your best friend, your partner, your equal and your most precious gift. Good luck on the road ahead.
2006-07-20 22:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by Listener 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't you have already talked to your fiancee?
2006-07-21 00:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this situation is just weird coz u'd talk to her like u'd always talk to her
2006-07-20 22:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have never talked to her, that seems odd.
2006-07-20 22:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋