he is24 and i am 23 will things work out for us?
2006-07-20 22:25:29 · 13 answers · asked by Aliama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg noooooooo gurl, he ain't serious at all !!!!
please think about it within your self. do you really think or feel it makes sense getting married with some one you've been with for just one month????
love has no time. i agree with that. some couples where together for 10 years and broke of after one year of marriage!!!! so time has really nothin to do. but i don't think you can really know a person after one month.
don't rush things. marriage isn't a piece of cake. it involves a lot of sacrifice, love and responsibility together with honesty.
learn more about him, by time you might realize that his character isn't the one you can live with for the rest of your life.
do you know about his family? how was his child hood? how does he get along with them? what about his social life, do you know if he can take care of you in good times and bad times? life won't we always roses ... some ppl chicken out in times of rough waters!!!!
well ... just think about it more in depth ... and don't rush ... getting married is not just signing a piece of paper or taking some body's last name ... is about having a man next to you for the rest of your life .... you''ll sleep n wake up next to him everyday ... and you'll share his good n bad ....
no one is perfect, but at least learn to love his weak points instead of getting stuck with them!!!!
2006-07-20 22:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by sue f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this dude may be a player...has he always said just the right thing? he tell you exactly what you want to hear? he acts as though you're the only one he'll ever want? he can be possessive of you & not want to be away from you a minute of the day? you need to slow down & get to know this dude lots better. No way can you know someone in a month unless you've been friends for years previously (& it would seem that this isn't the case). You're young...there's plenty of time to get serious...so take your time & get to know this guy better. You may find in a month or two that there are things about his behavior cropping up that you're not too cool with. I should know, I've had this happen several time to me.
2006-07-21 05:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long he is been waiting for you. But then going by your age it appears you both still need to take sometime before you talk of marriage and stuff like that! Tell him to be patient.
2006-07-21 05:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows what he want, and besides he might be a good husband. But but but if you are not ready then he should understand that. Dont let a good man go to waste prolonging.
2006-07-21 05:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by pepperspray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He asked ur hand in marriage means he is serious.
2006-07-21 05:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe very serious. but make sure it jus isnt a plan to lay u and then get away. so if hes realy serious hell be willing to wait for sex until marriage.
2006-07-21 05:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by tobeornottobe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no!, first do you know this persons last name? more inportantly have you slept with this person yet? if not then most likely this is in order to ask you for sex next ,slow down, find out more about this person, education, job, parents, living arrangments, care take care of you, is he mentally stable, etc
2006-07-21 05:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in that situation once. Be careful. Make sure you know him REALLY well. My story didn't turn out so good. Email me at ratfink62000@yahoo.com to find out more.
2006-07-21 05:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by cowboyskid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a month? marriage? I think you might be his first piece of a$$.
2006-07-21 05:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by J's On My Feet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very serious about ruining your life
2006-07-21 05:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by juandeldiabblo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋