My guy meet me the week his ex moved out.
He'd been with her for 3 years.
He has lived in his house for the past 5 years.
We had been going out for 3 months.
We were upstairs and the door bell goes, he goes to answer and no ones there.
When l'm about to go home, whoever knocked on the door posted there number through the door, the note read "call me" with a number and lots of kisses.
What should l mkae of this?
He says it's an ex from when he first bought the house.
2006-07-20 21:58:18 · 11 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he called the number, l don't have it, thats how he found out it was an ex from when he first got the house.
2006-07-20 22:06:34 · update #1
yeah thats a good one. no im sorry but hes lying to u. there are others girls out there and im sure he has called them already. so yeah i think u need to move on. no one knock and runs. someone was there and he shooed them away. he didnt want u come down and c huh. hes a cheat and playing u. dont fall 4 it be a smart girl and leave him. i wonder why the ex moved out. im sure she saw hes a cheat as u do but u want to hear different and im trying to help u so i wont lie to u. so leave him and go find a guy who will treat u right. they are out there.good luck
2006-07-20 22:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by SLICK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's odd that he rang the number but if he's got someone harrassing him he'd have to find out who it was. he's being open with you about it so i wouldn't read anything into it. I know how you feel but you can't go through relationships on the starting blocks waiting for the signal to run. you've got to put in the time with someone and you will find out what they are really like. he may be on the rebound with you or he could have been over the relationship long before they split. you can't guess you'll just have to wait and see. we all have baggage and that's what comes with a person. if it happens again you should just put it to him 'do we have a future? cos this is making me feel very vulnerable' and see what he says. in the meantime remember you won't see the signs cos you're in love/lust whatever and you'll be ok whatever happens.
2006-07-20 22:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your fault that this girl is after you boyfriend.
You should speak to him and tell him what you are feeling, ask him straight if he is seeing his ex.
He is probably feeling the same as you and doesnt know how to tell you whats on his mind, its not easy to tell your current girlfriend about a guys ex girlfriend.
There is probably nothing in it apart from some nutty ex trying to get in between him and you and by leaving messges and coming to the door she is playing games while trying to get you and him to brake up.
If you are honist with each other then there is no way that this girl can get between you and him.
2006-07-20 22:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by matdevine21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the ex came-a-calling....you should find that piece of paper and call the number pretending to be from the phone company or something to find out the name of the girl at least.
I know it sounds a bit psyco but hey...all is fare in love and war.
2006-07-20 22:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question then I think you already know the answer.
However....why don't YOU give her a call and see what she wants? Women are always better at talking to each other and you'll see thru any lies. Tell her he has a new girlfriend and she should leave you both alone.
You've got her number - call her.
2006-07-20 22:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by TonyB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have the number yet? I've been in enough of these situations to know guys are devious, but so are women not to discriminate. Did u see him throw it out or do u have it, then u are safe. Otherwise it is a big rub to is ego and he will call just if anything to inflate his ego, which will only lead to trouble.
2006-07-20 22:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to accept whatever will come coz this guy has been dating for 3yrs and 3months is nothing for people who have broken up after being together for 3 yrs.Be cool and take everthing the way they are coz if you stress this guy he will definately run away from you
2006-07-20 22:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jane J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doh! Come on girl time to start living in the real world. Sorry it's not the flowers and chocolates you probably want to hear
2006-07-20 22:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it was me i would get him to ring the number, or do it yourself, and if he says no then you no that he is telling lies,or could it be is x causing trouble ,you only been with him 3mths so it wont be to hard to get over him, hope things work out for you
2006-07-20 22:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by joan h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better take the hint and kick his trifling butt to the curb.
2006-07-20 22:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋