After more than a year apart I still sometimes think about my ex gf. Not obsesively but every now and again. Do you think she does the same? I'd like to know how life is treating her, should i try to get intouch?
2006-07-20 21:53:43 · 10 answers · asked by In The Rat Race 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. leave it or you'll never heal. it's ok to still have feelings and thoughts about her but they are just feelings and you don't have to act on everything you feel. just say to yourself 'hello feeling' and then let it go in your mind. you're bound to miss all the good things but you can have more good things with someone new. keeping in touch will stand in the way of having a loving relationship with someone new and she might not appreciate it. your ex may not react the way you expect and if she has a new fella you could end up getting a smack..you never know. just remember the good things with a smile and keep them as a personal memory. you'll be ok.
2006-07-20 22:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by minerva 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I still think about my ex to, if u were together a while its only natural for u to wonder how she is. If u parted on good terms then yeah get in touch with her
2006-07-21 05:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by trinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Costa Rica.
Massage, some cooz, and then a shower for under 50 bucks.
You'll forget all about that waste of skin.
2006-07-21 04:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by donaldfrickingduck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember my ex too . One time I emailed him and tell him that I miss him , then he reply my email and said that he can't stop think of me too ,also he thanks me because I contact him first and because now I am married , he said he wants to be very good friend of mine,since then we keep in touch by email all the time .
I think You have to try to call her , you don't have to think about the consequences , just call , tell her that you think of her ... if she said anything you don't like , so what , at least you tell her what you feel ...
Good Luck :) , You are the winner if you want to put aside your ego :)
2006-07-21 05:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I recently got in touch with an ex...bad idea. The result...REJECTION. You sound like you still really care so be sure you can handle it. Good Luck
2006-07-21 05:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No harm in thinkin about your ex.. Everybody does that at some time... If there are no hard feelings between you two...give her a call..
2006-07-21 04:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by japjongetje 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone remembers someone that meant something to them, no harm in seeing how shes doing.
2006-07-21 05:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by London girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to an achin heart for it knows how to cure itself... and like i said to one bloke,,, watch the film The lake house,,, might enlighten you
2006-07-21 04:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by rikyandnina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must of loved her.........i think you should get in touch,maybe she feels the same or maybe she has moved on...you will not know until you get in touch with her...........GOOD LUCK.......
2006-07-21 04:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by theblackwitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes im sure she does its only natural
2006-07-21 04:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by percyhz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋