Do you believe a woman should remain pure until marriage?

Question

Can we kiss and a little touchy touch or nothing??
I've done it before lots, but from now on I choose to remain pure until I enter a biblical and sacred marriage...(I'm 21)

Answer 1

I believe both a man & a woman should have sex after they fall in love!

Answer 2

Well I am not saying this to cruel but there would be a lot of 56 year old virgins.

I believe that they should because that is the right thing to do. But a lot of people DON"T want to. They love chaos so much.

Also if the woman remains pure, what about the man? Would you feel comfortable keeping yourself clean and pure for a man to get married and find out he has be with many women in his life time. And there are many men who would pursue sex on a daily bases, catching all kinds of diseases. Would you feel comfortable to have intercourse with him. I know I wouldn't.

One person say I keep my self clean and pure just to have an infected body part " put inside me"?

Last but not least, we are all inperfect. A little kiss or a little touchy stimulates a man so much that he will PRESSURE the woman to have sex. You are only teasing him into wanting more. Man are NOT like us. In NO WAY.

Answer 3

the more "touchy touchy" the hotter you are going to get, and the more you lose control. I know everyone thinks "I can stop if I want to" but there IS a point of no return. You need to identify what that point is for you, and stay far away from it. I assure you, your marriage will be much better for it. #1- no unwanted pregnancy #2- no stress about STDs #3- you wont have to worry that your relationship is based on the wrong things #4- you will have confidence and trust in yourself and your partner #5- you'll prove your strength and faith to yourself #6- Its worth it, the sex will be better. #7- you wont be like all the other girls. you will have something special that few have. #8- you wont have to fight about past mistakes

Answer 4

See, most religious people will always answer this question with a resounding "yes"..

But marriage is after all just a union of two people and their hearts and minds, and if they choose to unite their bodies, where's the harm in that?

What is so impure about sex anyway if not looked at from a religious standpoint?

In the end, it really is up to you and your mindset...do you feel clean and pure? Then you are. It doesn't matter what anyone else says, the rest is between you and God.

Answer 5

Realistically speaking, what does "pure" mean, anyway? And, really, what purpose does this purity serve, to either party? Its a fake ideal, a burden seemingly placed on women, but not men. And, its a fallacy. The only thing that should be pure in each person, in the end, is that they love each other. That's all.

Answer 6

I became a Chritian when I was 24 and I was not a virgin then but when I married at 31 I wore white and had not slept or even messed about with my husband. I am so glad I did that, it feels really good and you start married life feeling "clean" even though neither of us were virgins. I would recommend it any day, Gotta resist temptation though!!

Answer 7

being pure as you are now is "OK"....but dont stay too long on being and feeling pure..cuz maybe MR.RIGHT is always coming your way..but your always thinking about your virginity..hmmm and there goes another MR.RIGHT for you again..hmmm..let me just say this..even a lady that has never had sex for 6months can hurt a man..if you know what i mean...?..ooh yes that is true..so staying too long on purity..will make a man think your being selfish..am not saying to go and have sex now with any man..thats not what am saying here...being pure does not make a relationship good..understanding,compromising,and sharing is the key to a dream come true relationship...THE OLD SAYING IS>>>>IT TAKES TWO TO DO THE TANGO DANCE...AND MAKING YOUR PARTNER USE CONDOMS IS A PURE SMART THINKER...OK GOOD LUCK>>>PURE LADY

Answer 8

You will only remain as pure as you want to be. If you think you can wait till marriage even after you've done it then wait.

Answer 9

You either wish to remain pure or you do not.
If kissing and petting are okay, where will you draw the line?

Answer 10

YES i do..i strongly do belive it..& to tell u something...
im keeping it.. believe that you should be pure till marriage. A kiss, hug is ok but nothing else.

Answer 11

First of all, just cause NOW you're waiting doesn't mean anything. You already had sex and you can't change that. Second, there's nothing wrong with not being a virgin or being one. So, really. Stop the "saint" act.