a pretty face with a chubby/thick or whatever body and great personality or a great body with a not so pretty face and snotty attitude? Guys or girls welcome to answer.
Me and my boyfriend have a bet going on that most people look for looks first then personality
2006-07-20 21:24:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I look at personality (thick/chubby), but most people in todays world, looks (great body) are first and most important. Too bad for them though, they missed the best thing to ever happen to them------------> ME!
2006-07-20 21:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Someonesmommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a pretty face and great attitude with a somewhat chubby body. There is usually more depth to someone like that. Besides, a woman with a thicker body gives a man something to hold on to.I have seen tons of thick girls who look great in their jeans and small shirts, as long as they don't have the blubber hanging out the tops of their pants.
2006-07-20 21:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by tinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one of you that picked that looks come first has won that bet. Truth is, if most don't see or feel some physical attraction to someone they almost never take the time to get to know them so they won't have a chance to woo them with their great personality. It's the truth.
2006-07-20 21:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by iuud2noitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definetley go for a man with a great personality. I dont care weither he is a bit chunky. Personality says it all. Some of the most handome men (and vise versa)have the worst personalities and I would never take them home to meet my family- EVER. Good looks are just a plus!!!!!!
2006-07-20 21:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by tashasnyder2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you see a person, before you talk to them, hear them, feel them or even smell them..hopefully..
your eyes are usually the first way you get information..
it's very easy to judge someone by their outward appearance, it happens all the time..it is a natural reaction..predator/prey. dominant/passive..you make judgements daily for reasons you don't ever really realize..it's too easy.. even certain colors cause people to react in a certain way..
but back you your question..
understanding this..i choose to be different..true, i couldn't fall in love at first sight with a person i find unappealling ,but i would much rather be with a person i can talk to, laugh with, learn and grow with..i've seen too many times what can happen to superficial people in relationships.. beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder.. and it is a fickle and shortlived thing,beauty..
one day you have it.. the next ..poof
it's gone
2006-07-20 21:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by gorillablunts123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both r imp. it varies according to weightage one gives to both. for some pretty face is more imp than body. but if the overall persoality is hopeless pretty face is of no importance. same way if personalty is gr8 but body language is repelling then also its of no use. so both hav to b there. but it depends how much imp it carries in an individuals mind...face or body. we cant say tht only face is imp or only body is imp
2006-07-20 21:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by zeba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though looks seem to matter in today's life I still think someone 's personality should come first.
2006-07-20 21:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by sweetme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, i like to be my bf a smart one and do have a great personality! i go for personality first, then if he got the looks, that would be a bonus! ;p
2006-07-20 21:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real answer is. Her not going to like this. She'll understand this. It's the the way I feel with I'm with you. ..... Missing that feeling when I'm not with you.
2006-07-20 21:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by billlucas14all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks first
2006-07-20 21:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋