2006-07-20 21:17:55 · 19 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless a guy wants to have kids, there is no advantage for him to get married.
Guys, if you do decide to get married, make sure you get a prenup! She may argue that getting a prenuptial is setting the marriage up for failure. Don't be fooled because this is not the case. No more than getting car insurance is setting one's self up to get in a car accident.
You are creating the prenuptial so that BOTH of you can be protected in case one passes away or there is a divorce. You both want to do what is good for the family! By no means is this a selfish act. You want to make sure that the government doesn't take control of something you both have struggled hard to build. If she doesn't want a prenuptial then she is the one that is trying to hurt the family.
Taking the time and energy to create a prenuptial shows that you care about the other person and have made a conscious effort to think about protecting the family.
The great thing about perpetual is that it gives you and your wife the opportunity to set expectations before the marriage. So you both establish expectations and know where the other stands before making a large commitment.
2006-07-20 21:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right reasons to get married are the ones that don't end in a divorce (and definitely not within a year!)
For me, the reason to get married (mind, not to commit to a relationship, but to get legally married) is so that my children will not be born out of wedlock. At that time, I would have already lived with that person and would have made sure how compatible we are, etc. The marriage would be just a formalization, for the sake of a calm and easy childhood.
I don't know what the right and wrong reasons would be for other people. I guess it depends on the couple.
2006-07-20 21:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right reason to get married is to have morally legal sex, and the real right reason to get married is, when you decide what kind of a life you want,
and how you want to spend your time
'your dreams, goals, hobbies, values, etc are very similar, and you genuinely like the person, have a healthy attraction to the person, want the same kind of family life, and after a long time together, it is comfortable,respect is at top of list, and it makes a difference to you that that person you marry will be ok, and that you would even do things their way, sometimes, just because you love them and don't always have to be right,
and if you trust the "right person" WITH YOUR FEELINGS, and your treasures, and you want to share all with them.. then that would be a "right reason to marry" AND GROW OLD TOGETHER. IN LOVE
The wrong reason to stay single is because you are stingy, do not want to share or take any risks, or you are afraid of failure, and dont go for what you want, because you are negative, ,,maybe all that i just said sucks, but it would be wrong to stay single if you are ready for marriage, and found the right person who fits real good with you, and they want to, but you dont marry because you think it might not work, or you want proof, of sucess etc,
2006-07-20 21:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have it backwards. What are the "wrong" reasons to get married? What are the "right" reasons to stay single?
Don't get married to escape your parents,financial woes, because of pregnancy or fear of being alone. Stay single if you're considering marriage because of the "wrong' reasons.
2006-07-20 21:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jo S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right reason I think is because you found someone that will be a great partner in this journey we call life that has similar goals as you and will help you grow and be a better person.
The wrong one is to be afraid to be in a relationship for fear of what might happen. Hey you'll never know what you might be missing if you pick the right person ;)
2006-07-20 21:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love the person. It makes you happy. You are ready to accept the changes marriage will bring to your life.
The wrong reasons to stay single? Fear of change, maybe?
2006-07-20 21:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by DisIllusioned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right reason to get married is because you love the person. the wrong reason to stay in a relationship period is for personal gain
2006-07-20 21:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been unmarried for below a year yet i have lengthy gone longer stretches. i do not truly care. The very last courting changed into no longer so tremendous and that i'm in no rush to get again into one. at the same time, I easily hate "courting," and that i do not do one-nighttime stands. So the answer for me is to proceed to be unmarried and under no circumstances searching. i'm no longer ruling out some thing interior the destiny, yet i'm putting my skill into different interests in existence. i'm a guy, by using how.
2016-10-15 01:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly love, being in love. the wrong reasons to stay single are using past relationships or marriage to stay single. being afraid of rejection after getting out of a relationship of cheating.
2006-07-20 21:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right reasons to get married---
1.Security
2.Love
3.Assured companionship
4.Stability
Wrong reasons to stay single--
1.To be able to live freely without any committments.
2006-07-20 21:52:30 · answer #10 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋