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Well, I tell the parents that I have on my support forum - and we deal with a chronic life threatening illness - do learn everything that they can about the disease that their child have. Watch for symptoms but treat them normally as you possibly can. That they may need to see a therapist to get coping skills as it is very easy to bottle worries and emotions up. That is ok to get help.

To cross bridges as they come and do their best to roll with the punches. Be as supportive as they can but no smothering.

Hope that helps!

2006-07-21 05:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by hello 4 · 1 0

Obviously you would want to love and care for them. However it would also be important to respect their wishes. Sometimes when things like that happen all people really want is normality and for people to treat them the same as they always would. It's a strange thing, but chroonic illness can sometimes bring out the best in people and reveal strengths and dignity you never knew you had.

2006-07-20 22:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by waggy 6 · 0 0

I would make the best of the time I had left with them and make sure all of the "affairs" that need to be taken care of are in order. Then I would also look for a way to help them and make them as comfortable as possible.

2006-07-20 21:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 0 0

my dad has a similar component he turned right into a smoker he changed into rushed to medical institution with pneumonia as hes chest and lungs the position undesirable pneumonia is existence threatening to some with emphysema my dad had pneumonia for 2 months be sure she seems after her self. my dad has now given up smoking yet he can not do as a lot now.

2016-10-15 01:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

be very loving and supportive and offer any help i could leaving is very cruel they need you the most they may push you away but dont leave just give them space and when they are ready they will come to you, never push them away with hugs&kisses you dont know what that means to them also when they feel like it talk about the illness and just listen they dont want advice just someone who will listen to them

2006-07-20 21:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by oceanlady580 5 · 0 0

I would probably cry at first then ill just make them happy the best way i can..ofcourse i think i would try and fight the illness ill do whatever it takes ....

2006-07-20 21:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0 0

hopefully, the same thing that my partner is doing for me, standing by be, and being supportive and understanding, and loving me the same as before my diagnosis. even tho MS isnt as life threatening as other diseases, we know what can and will eventually happen.

2006-07-20 21:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by daddysboicub 5 · 0 0

I'd make them happy as much as I could, do things they wanted to do, spend more time with them and support them in every way I could...

My grandma is in this position too...it's all you can do...make them the happiest person before they close their eyes forever...

2006-07-20 21:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by belle_chocolatiere 4 · 0 0

make the rest of there life the best i possibly could

2006-07-20 21:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

does this sound really bad? i think i would be able to cope pretty wel if it was my husband, we'd work thru it together. i would be devistated.

i wouldn't be able to cope at all if it was one of my children. i would go to pieces.there is no way i could grieve for my babies. (one is nearly 7 and one is about to have his first birthday) it would kill me too. i hope it doesnt happen to any of us or any of you either.

2006-07-20 21:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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