I didn't think much of him at first, but when I was told that he had feelings for me, I just became obsessed with him. I can't stop thinking about him and my heart just pounds harder whenever he's near me or when we make eye contact. Whenever I see him talking to another girl who is attractive, I can't help but to be jealous. I've only known him for a few months, but I really like him. I want to know, why is it that I developed this huge crush on him as soon as I found out that he liked me?
2006-07-20 20:49:25 · 13 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When learning that he likes you, you started paying more attention to him, Seeing what he has to offer, and slowly started to develop a crush on him. Maybe you didnt see him as a potential boyfriend until you realized you had more of a chance then you realized.
2006-07-20 20:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHAT??? DID I JUST READ THIS??? I'm sorry, I do not believe you. Never in my life has ANY girl I liked ever felt ANYTHING for me. The minute they find out I like them BOOM! It's all over. They give me the whole FRIEND speech and tell me what a "great" guy I am but they still don't want to ever be more than friends.
Whatever drugs you are taking, please give them to the next girl I fall for.... PLEASE... I am so tired of this B.S.
I wish there were more girls like you. Life would be damn good... I mean DAMN good. I might be married by now.
In answer to your question, I have no idea. Not a clue. But if a girl liked me, sure I'd look her over once or twice and give her a shot, no doubt. If she's cute and sweet, then hell yeah I'd fall in love like that.
2006-07-21 03:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mister_Shhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are flattered by his thoughts! You want to try to have a relationship with a person that shows interest in you, rather than the other way around only. Sometimes its more of a flirtatious thing and you may not really want a relationship but want the continuing attention. Everyone would find that flattering.
When he shows interest in other girls, it would feel like he is transfering that attention to somebody else.
2006-07-21 03:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u want to know why i know why. its because the fact he likes u. all girls want to be loved by a guy. so this guy digs u and now that it has been revealed secretly u think its sweet and then u c him as another person. he not just a guy u pass by now. hes the guy u know likes u and he dont know right. so that makes it hotter cuz u know he likes u and he doesnt. who cares how long u knew him. that dont matter really. he always talked to girl u never cared u never felt anything for him. now u know he likes u and all the girls u c him talking to makes u crazy. he shouldnt be there talking to them he should come up to u and ask u out. so yeah if he knoew u liked him now then u guy be kool. so why are u attracted to him cuz u know that he likes u and thats just hot. isnt it hot. so good luck and if he dont come up to u then u go to him.
2006-07-21 04:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way. Imagine you are in a room with ten guys who all about the same level of attractiveness. Your friend has told you that this one guy really, really likes you. Even if it isn't true, you will form a much more positive opinion about him. There's lots of research to back this up. In short, we are much more likely to like people who like us. B
2006-07-21 04:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just dont know... it just shows you that there might b a chance for something between you guys some hope that you never saw before. But you should let him know how you feel and try things out you just might find what something you like in tha relationship you guys might build.
2006-07-21 04:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mizz Lady 101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For whatever the reasons you have been attracted to him, may be he is smart, handsome, bright, rich, etc. etc. and once you know he has a feeling to you, naturally you will become very attracted to him. It could happened to everybody,I think.
2006-07-21 05:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by sastra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to my girl friend.
When she found out that i liked her a lot, she grew very close to me and we now spend almost every moment together (mentally as well)
its the fact that you suddenly realise that there is someone out there who loves you and really adores you.
its human nature coz we are social beings
2006-07-21 03:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes that just happens, you have had hidden thoughts probably. but i have to say a lot of the time people end up going crazy for someone they know isn't interested in them, feel lucky
2006-07-21 03:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by Ralph M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because in human nature its and great ability to find out what matters most for themselves...be it anything....your mind set is right now in this directions..and nothing else...seriously you would like to invite someone to read yourself and know you better..then anyone before..that is why you feel attracted..and trying to impress yourself by mean of satisfying answers..to your self....
2006-07-21 04:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by Sati K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋