how long after dating someone should it be til they have sex?
2006-07-20 20:29:10 · 25 answers · asked by Jessica W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be careful that is right for you and that you have been with him long enough to know that he is not just waiting to get you in bed. Make sure you know him. make sure you know your feelings. That is the most important thing, but use condoms!
2006-07-20 20:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't wait long enough and married the wrong person. If one would say sex is not great with the man or woman their involved with their "First time", Was it just lust? When your young the hormons are realy testing you. Time will tell you if you were wrong, because whatever you decide, You've got to live with it forever, if a child was formed due to it or you've been given something Doctors, shots, or pills won't get rid of. "OLD SCHOOL", Be best friends, same likes and dislikes, temper and mellow then sex is the prize thats makes your commitment bond and grow, simply because you guys started with the basics. I'm sorry to say there's probably not many that would start a relationship as this and stick to it, which means you yourself must know what kind of relationship you want, a year or two or a lifetime
2006-07-20 20:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by plowboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And how old are you (to the question ask er). The people who have answered this question 0nly had thoughts of themselves.. Sorry but you did. You might be dealing with a very young person. I'm so glad you share you personal perspectives with a possible twelve year old.
2006-07-20 20:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by billlucas14all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on y'all. I've gotten busy with woman at the beginning, and also waited months for some action. Either way whatever you decide, It's not going to strengthen or weaken the relationship one way or the other. If it does, you guys are in it for the wrong reasons...good luck
2006-07-20 20:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you feel like. There is no set rule. If you feel comfortable with the person, not afraid, affectionate... go ahead. But be careful, as it will change things; do not comply with his pressure, unless you are ready; and... safe sex, right?
2006-07-20 20:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not put a time on when you should have sex with someone. If it feels right when you both feel it then go for it. Jus take care
2006-07-20 20:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the people involved.. With one of my girl friends we waited almost a year (it was worth the wait) and with my wife we waited only 2 months before we had sex.. Every relationship is different..
2006-07-20 20:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have sex whenever you want. don't be afraid. if you wanna get down, get down. he'll still respect you, as long as you do it with class. anything is better than these chicks that say 'we can't have sex yet, but i'll give you a *******'. What the hell kind of sense does that make?!?
2006-07-20 20:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by Six 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are ready for the sex and its responsibility.
2006-07-20 20:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by sastra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think it should be discussed openly and maybe after the first couple of dates weather this might grow into something or just a bootie call. why waste your and mine time.
2006-07-20 20:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by gilgler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋