I have two close lady friends. Sexualy and for friendship they both have good qualities that the other does not have. This seems a very good arangement as they are unlikely to ever meet each other living in diferent parts of London. I have an all zones travelcard so can get around. More ladys as well could be a good idea
2006-07-20 20:24:54 · 54 answers · asked by bwadsp 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
one day your going to get court, and you will be very lonely!!!!
2006-07-20 20:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by kaz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can to do like this for the rest of your life. Your girlfriends would wish to marry you. How long can you continue relationship without commitment?The question here is how you should do next. If they both can accept sharing the same
husband, you are the luckiest man is the world. Since now, they don't know, why don't you take this chance to slowly think what if you have to pick one. The worst case is you lose them all. Good Luck!!!!!
2006-07-20 20:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by Yanisa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it wrong? Well it must be bothering you somewhat if you have concerns about the right/wrongness of the situation. Only you can know how much these Ladies have invested (feelings) into this relationship. and you surely must know if they expect a future with you or if this is just for fun with them also.
If you have no guilt, then go for it, but keep in mind how you would feel if you were one of them--waiting on the side.
2006-07-20 20:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong in it. It's not like you're married. I would tell them just in case they do ever find out about each other. It's always better to be honest. That way there is no secrets. In the end you always end up feeling bad about it. Well, I did at least. Live it up and have fun.
2006-07-20 20:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by andrea b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could get hold of one like the lady up there and she would beat you up! I would be scared if I were you! It is never good to lie and cheat but you will have to answer for that and you don't look like a spring chicken so you should know better! Get yourself straightened out before its too late.
2006-07-20 20:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by Godb4me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it is wrong to do so, however, eventually someone will get hurt. If you like each of the ladies you are with, then I would ask myself do I really one to hurt one of them....
Someone always gets hurt when you play games. No matter that you think it will never happen or they will never meet....it does happen.
As for adding more to the mix...I do suppose you are careful not to get or distribute any STD's?
This is just one woman's opinion.
2006-07-20 20:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by wine_of_circe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have any number of friends.But it seems you are taking advantage of the two women on the courage of the fact that they may not meet each other.That means in effect you are cheating two women for sex.Do you call it friendship?If you get three women still you will have same argument.Enjoy till you are caught.If caught they may cut your dick.Any how man is made for any number of women.
2006-07-20 20:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your picture shows you have a very canny resemblance to a certain Mr. Brad Pitt...no wonder you have the ladies at your feet.
What's your secret, is it the all-zone travelcard?
2006-07-20 20:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by Pete Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have very similar circumstances, and I believe that you are correct in feeling the way you do. Although, I do feel that you should say something to the both of them. Honesty IS the best quality. It could get you in trouble, but if you are THAT GOOD, then they will both accept it, and whose to say that YOU ARE THE ONLY MAN?
2006-07-20 20:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by FoShow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very wrong dude... and selfish on your part... Imagine their feelings if they knew. Think they would be cool with it... Hell no... Next time your wondering if this is OK or not, imagine your lady friends with another guy and see how you like it.
Stand up, and be honorable, you will be glad you did and sleep better at night,
Their ignorance of your actions does not make your actions justified.
2006-07-20 20:30:33 · answer #10 · answered by bwmattox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, As long as they know about eachother, you could end up hurting one. And what if one of your close lady friends had like 5 close guy friends and didn't tell you? whatever. safe sex is good if you don't want a disease or children.
2006-07-20 20:32:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋