Theres a girl who I think I could spend the rest of my life with...sucks because were young lol... anyway we're good friends but I don't know if she likes me or not... she kind of acts different a little around me... we talk a lot. She gets excited when were in the same group or anything... but still, as obvious as it might sound to you you really don't know her so it's hard for you to understand. We do hang out sometimes which I suppose is a good sign. Whats big about this is that we have so much in common, things she doesnt even know. A big problem: theres another kid in my class who used to be a loyal friend but he changed himself and abandoned me. :( He told a bunch of people that he likes her and now he says theyre going out. I heard her deny it once, saying that he was just saying that because he liked her but I don't know. I see them hang out a lot. I think about her every day. I dont know if we're getting closer or farther apart. That kid has made our relationship a lot harder.
2006-07-20 19:49:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I forgot to mention that I'm extremely shy with talking about love. While I'm fine talking to her I don't know about talking to her about this. I could never tell her...unless there was some perfect moment...which will never come.
So I've been waiting for her to tell me because I really think she does like me...not that I'm completely sure...
Also I never mentioned it's summer vacation... I don't know if that's important to you or not.
I'm hoping the vacation can give me a fresh start.
2006-07-24 14:56:57 · update #1
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-07-26 20:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You really should talk to her....let her know how you feel about her, about him, about all of it. The worst she could do is turn you down...if you are already friends now I dont see how it would make that change (except for a little ackwardness for a bit).
Good luck to you!
2006-07-20 19:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things always seem so difficult, but there is hope!
Honestly, the best thing to do is to just ask her if she is interested in you "that" way.
If she is, great! If not, at least you have your answer, and you can still be friends.
Accept her answer if it's "No"; celebrate if her answer is "Yes."
2006-07-20 19:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by J C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop man. Stop now. What you're doing obviously isn't working. http://www.alovelinksplus.com/advice/double-your-dating-articles/how-to-impress-any-woman.htm. You have some reading to do. Good luck!
2006-07-20 19:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jon J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋